"VOF Week 3: (Lerning from challenges)."
I do not have much knowledge about blogging, but I wanted to use it to express my words to the world. Though, I did not have a wide range of experiences, I uttered my voice threw the walls which were around me.
Society had covered me with a strong wall which limited my dedication of raising my voice to the world. This limit told me to be careful what you are saying, because the society will ask many questions from you. I was scared when I write something to blogging, because my mind had covered with the rules from the society. It doesn’t allow coming freely to my ideas. Then, how can I give my real thoughts and feelings to the society? This makes lack of motivation about the social issues in my society. Moreover, when I see an issue in my view, when I want to argue it in my way according to my perception, the society argues in an another way which is in totally different way to my view. This sends me in a different way than I expected, which focuses on others opinions and views than my view. Therefore, it doesn’t mean that I express the same ideas as same as in my mind, which comes from my mind. Sometimes the people who know about the field very well than me, they try to go over me with their wide and intelligent knowledge. They do not care that I am new and still I am learning. They don’t try to help and take us to the world by giving advices. This stops entering new people to the field and learning new things.
I feel these things are giving strength for us to move forward. Therefore as women nation, we need to take this as a challenge and we have fight with this instead of scaring and leaving the target. Therefore, even the society and people refuse and cheat us we should not bend our heads for their voices and go away. I think the best thing is taking everything as a challenge. Everything which comes to us we should take as something which we have to learn many things. Therefore, I think as a possible solution we can fight against the cheatings and the refusing, through our words which are more powerful to raise our voice. When we raise our voice the society will get to know about the empowerment and they will start to respect the women nation. The society will start to think the women also a group of human which they should listen and care. Therefore, in my view I think the only solution which we need is moving forward without any negative perceptions to get the place which we have in the society. We should not stop even the sound which is coming from the background in too noisy. We should think everything as a challenge which we can get strength to our lives.
One day they will get to know about the possibilities which we can do and then they will stop discriminations which they are doing against us. They will gather around us to raise our voice and they will listen to our words too.
Here I am: http://mirroflife.wordpress.com/