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Denoncons les cas de viols: les auteurs doivent repondre des leurs actes

Mes chers amis: nous vivons dans un monde des méchants;

Une triste histoire : On me nomme Lala, je suis une rwandaise réfugiée en RDC depuis 1994, j’ai épousée un congolais du nom de Monsieur Kaka, un militaire, j’ai 7 enfants avec lui. Il me torture au moins 3 fois par semaines il m’administre des coups et des blessures. Nous mangeons difficilement, et cela grâce à un petit commerce des braises ou d’un basin de tomates que je réalise ; mon capital ne dépasse pas 20 dollars, les enfants et moi-même, nous nous habillons en lambeaux, il ne m’a jamais dotée, car j’ai perdu tous mes parents lors du génocide au Rwanda, je ne peux pas y rentrer car je ne sais ou aller.
J’ai été absente de la maison pour garder une sœur malade, mon mari s’est permit de prendre notre première enfant âgée de 14 ans, il l’a violé, la pauvre fille ne l’avait pas dit ce jour là ; car j’étais à l’hôpital faire la garde malade. Trois semaines après ; je suis rentrée à la maison, l’enfant était devenue très froide, inactive et soucieuse. Jusque là sans rien me dire, c’est seulement un jour, j’ai suivi son père qui s’adresser à sa fille sous ces mots, je cite : le jour que tu le diras à ta mère je te tue… Cela m’a alors poussé à poser des questions à la pauvre, qui me dira qu’un jour quand j’étais à l’hôpital son père était parti la prendre à l’école et arriver à la maison il lui avait intimidé avec l’arme et lui avait obligé de coucher avec lui et lui avait dit de ne jamais me le dire. Et c’est o partir de ce jour là que la fille m’avait tout dit. Le monsieur est aux arrêts et la fille à eu les soins appropriés.
Oui, des telles situations doivent être dénoncées du jour au jour et trimestriellement menons un plaidoyer.

Salutations à vous tous mes bien aimés.

Wilhelmine.

English translation by community member Nancy Janus

Let us denounce cases of rape: The perpetrators must answer for their actions

My dear friends: We are living in a world of bad people;

A sad story: My name is Lala. I am from Rwanda, taking refuge in the DRC since 1994. I married a Congolese man named Mr. Kaka, a soldier. I have 7 children with him. He tortures me at least 3 times a week. He beats me and wounds me. We eat with difficulty, and that thanks to a small cinder business or a bowl of tomatoes that I put together; my income never exceeds $20. The children and I dress in shreds. He has never provided for me and because I lost my parents in the Rwandan genocide I cannot go back there as I would not know where to go.

I was out of the house to take care of a sick sister. My husband gave himself permission to take our first child, 14 years old, and he raped her. The poor girl didn’t say anything about it that day for I was at the hospital doing sick care.
Three weeks later I went back home. The child had become very cold, passive and distressed. Up to that point, without saying anything to me, just one day I followed her father who addressed the girl using these words, and I quote, “the day that you tell your mother I will kill you…” That pushed me to ask the poor girl about it and she said that one day when I was at the hospital her father had left to take her to school, and arriving at the house he had intimidated her with a weapon and had forced her to sleep with him and had told her never to tell me about it. And it is from that day on that the girl told me everything. The man has been arrested and the girl has had proper care.

Yes, such situations must be denounced from the first day to the last and quarterly let us speak out.

Greetings to all of you, my good friends.

Wilhelmine

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J'ai traduit votre journal

Bonjour Wilhelmine,

J'ai traduit ce journal que vous avez envoyé à World Pulse il y a deux mois. C'est une histoire très triste. Je me sens triste pour la maman et pour sa fille aussi. Vous avez raison. De telles situations doivent être dénoncées!

Bien à vous,

Nancy

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Translation

Let us denounce cases of rape: The perpetrators must answer for their actions

My dear friends: We are living in a world of bad people;

A sad story: My name is Lala. I am from Rwanda, taking refuge in the DRC since 1994. I married a Congolese man named Mr. Kaka, a soldier. I have 7 children with him. He tortures me at least 3 times a week. He beats me and wounds me. We eat with difficulty, and that thanks to a small cinder business or a bowl of tomatoes that I put together; my income never exceeds $20. The children and I dress in shreds. He has never provided for me and because I lost my parents in the Rwandan genocide I cannot go back there as I would not know where to go.

I was out of the house to take care of a sick sister. My husband gave himself permission to take our first child, 14 years old, and he raped her. The poor girl didn’t say anything about it that day for I was at the hospital doing sick care.
Three weeks later I went back home. The child had become very cold, passive and distressed. Up to that point, without saying anything to me, just one day I followed her father who addressed the girl using these words, and I quote, “the day that you tell your mother I will kill you…” That pushed me to ask the poor girl about it and she said that one day when I was at the hospital her father had left to take her to school, and arriving at the house he had intimidated her with a weapon and had forced her to sleep with him and had told her never to tell me about it. And it is from that day on that the girl told me everything. The man has been arrested and the girl has had proper care.

Yes, such situations must be denounced from the first day to the last and quarterly let us speak out.

Greetings to all of you, my good friends.

Wilhelmine

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