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CAUSES DE DIVORCE DANS NOTRE COMMUNAUTE

Tout le monde est libre de demander le divorce, mais il est plus rapide de se marier que de divorcer. Ainsi, parmi ces différents cas de divorce, il est nécessaire de bien faire son choix vu que pour certains, il peut être prononcé plus tôt, tandis que pour les autres, il peut prendre plus de temps
e divorce est la rupture du mariage due généralement au non respect de certaines obligations des époux. Il est rompu devant un juge suivant une procédure judiciaire. Le divorce peut être prononcé pour diverses causes : d’un commun accord, d’une faute grave commise par l’un des époux, qui nécessite des justifications pour pouvoir l’obtenir, ou d’une altération du lien conjugal
dans notre coutime le divorse peut avoir lieu lorsqu ‘il chez l’homme comme chez la femme un cas de :
• Mensonge lors de la fiançaille
• Incompréhension entre les deux conjoints
• La nauchallance de la part de la femme
• Dominence de la femme pour l’homme alors que c’est l’homme qui est le chef de la
• l’adultère
• les violences conjugales
• l’abandon de domicile
• la non participation aux charges familiale
par conséquent lorsqu’il y a divorce il faut songer aussi pour les enfants car ces derniers sont aussi affecter par la séparation de leurs parents. Effectivement, ils doivent s’habituer à ce que la vie qu’ils ont menée jusque-là change. Il convient alors de les rassurer et si c’est trop difficile pour eux ou l’un d’entre eux, il est conseillé de demander l’aide d’un spécialiste qui pourrait recommander un traitement adapté à chaque enfant ou à toute la famille. Dans le cas contraire, il faut leur parler et passer du temps avec eux. En cas d’incompréhension de leur part, il faut leur expliquer la situation avec des mots simples. Il est à noter qu’il est important de ne jamais dégrader son ex-conjoint ou de se quereller avec lui devant les enfanst afin qu’ils ne se sentent pas trop ’insécursé
j’aurai souhaité qu’il n’ait plus de divorce car Après un divorce, on peut ressentir certaines émotions, entre autres de la tristesse, la colère, la frustration, la solitude et l’angoisse. Si on ne réagit pas, cela pourrait aboutir à une dépression menant à une détérioration physique et mentale. De plus, on risque de rencontrer des obstacles au travail et dans ses relations en général. Pour pouvoir aller de l’avant, il faut à tout prix éviter de négliger sa personne après son divorce.
Ainsi, pour éviter de sombrer dans la mélancolie, on peut changer son mode de vie et s’adonner à de nouvelles activités visant à la détente ou prévoir des sorties avec des amis. De plus, il faut faire attention à son alimentation car on a tendance à se laisser aller après un divorce. L’alcool est à proscrire.

English translation by community member nawara el ramly

Causes of divorce in our commuinity

The whole world is free to demand a divorce , but its faster to get marriend than to be divorced.
Thus , among the different cases of divorce, its necessary to make choice because some , can be pronounced really early while for other people it may take some time.

Divorce is the breakage of marriage , generally due to not respecting certain onligations from husband.
it is broken infront of a judge according to judgmnetal proceders.
Divorce can be pronounced for too many reasons :
Common agreement , a mistake that is commited from one of the spouses that needs a justification inorder to obtain or irretrievable breakdown.
In our costume , divorce can take place because it for a man as well as a woman a case of :
• Lie at the engagment
• Misunderstanding between spouses
• The carlessness from the woman's part
• Dominance of woman on man while the man is the head of the house
• The adultry
• Violence between the spouses
• The abondment of the house
• The non-participation in the family affairs

By consequences because there is a divorce, we have to reflect this on the children because they are also affected by the seperation of their parents.
Effectively, they have to get used to the changes in their lives,we have to reassure them and make them secured and if it was difficult for them , we have to seek a spicialist who can recommend a treatment which can be adapted by one of the children or all the family.
On the contrary, we have to talk to them and spend time with them.
If they didn’t understand on their part , we have to explain to them the situation in simple words.
Its is remarked as important never to degrade the other partner or fight with him infront of the children beacause at the end thay will feel so insecure.
I wish that there will never be any divorce , because after a divorce we can refeel certain emotions like sadness , anger , frustration , loneliness and worry.

If we don’t react , this can lead to depression leading to physical and mental deterioration.
Plus, we may have risks of facing obstacles at work and in our relations , generally.
To move forward , we have to avoid neglecting that partner after the divorce.
Thus, to avoid sinking into melancholy, we can change the mode of life and engage in new activities or hang out with our friends.
In addition , we must take care of our nutrition because we tend to not take care of it after a divorce , alcohol is avoided.

Comments

mayele's picture

Merci

Merci pour ton article ,mais le divorce ne doit pas être à envisager à tout prix puisque même devant le juge il essaye toujours de procéder à l'arrangement à l'amiable.Je crois qu'en contractant le mariage on doit tout faire afin que la relation n'arrive pas à cela.Et si l'on ne s’entend pas le divorce devrait être envisagé en dernière place.Les enfants ne devraient pas souffrir des erreurs de leurs parents.Merci pour le travail que tu abats dans World Pulse,nous espérons te lire très prochainement.

Mayele , Maman shujaa and World Pulse volunteer

MWAMINI's picture

merci Mayele de t'avoir

merci Mayele de t'avoir donné le temps de lire et commenter mon journal , vraiment ça me fait plaisir,alors ici chez nous la pratique de divorce n'est pas trop frequente; mais s'il arrive,ces sont les enfants qui en soufre car ça affecte leurs comportement moral qu'intellectuel.ils se retrouvent dans un état d'insécurité en se demandant qui suivre et comment continuer la vie.
encore une fois merci.

evelyne

Evelyne

nawara el ramly's picture

getting over it

i am pleased to read ur journal and to get to know more about ur feelings towards such incident that may happen to any woman , but getting over this is the best part ever , when knowing that this is not the best thing for u is the beginning of solving problems ,which leads u to seek new relationships in ur life , new interests and new hobbies that u might engage urself into.

its very interesting to read about how may this affect a child and how we can deal with the situation if ever happened , but yet taking decisions is the most important aspect of all, it may lead to make ur children even happier when u didnt know that this is the best solution for them .

keep the awareness up , and keep posting about the virtual events of ur siociety , it surely will lead the world to a better place.

much love ,

Nawara

MWAMINI's picture

Salut Nawara suis trés

Salut Nawara
suis trés contente de vous voir traduire mon journal et d'y poster un commentaire, en tant que femme ,je ne peux pas encourager cette pratique de divorce car lors de mariage les condjoints jurent devant Dieu et devant tout le monde de rester uni et fidèle l'un à l'autre jusqu'à la mort.

Santé à toi mon ami

Evelyne

nawara el ramly's picture

translation for the journal

Causes of divorce in our commuinity :

The whole world is free to demand a divorce , but its faster to get marriend than to be divorced.
Thus , among the different cases of divorce, its necessary to make choice because some , can be pronounced really early while for other people it may take some time.

Divorce is the breakage of marriage , generally due to not respecting certain onligations from husband.
it is broken infront of a judge according to judgmnetal proceders.
Divorce can be pronounced for too many reasons :
Common agreement , a mistake that is commited from one of the spouses that needs a justification inorder to obtain or irretrievable breakdown.
In our costume , divorce can take place because it for a man as well as a woman a case of :
• Lie at the engagment
• Misunderstanding between spouses
• The carlessness from the woman's part
• Dominance of woman on man while the man is the head of the house
• The adultry
• Violence between the spouses
• The abondment of the house
• The non-participation in the family affairs

By consequences because there is a divorce, we have to reflect this on the children because they are also affected by the seperation of their parents.
Effectively, they have to get used to the changes in their lives,we have to reassure them and make them secured and if it was difficult for them , we have to seek a spicialist who can recommend a treatment which can be adapted by one of the children or all the family.
On the contrary, we have to talk to them and spend time with them.
If they didn’t understand on their part , we have to explain to them the situation in simple words.
Its is remarked as important never to degrade the other partner or fight with him infront of the children beacause at the end thay will feel so insecure.
I wish that there will never be any divorce , because after a divorce we can refeel certain emotions like sadness , anger , frustration , loneliness and worry.

If we don’t react , this can lead to depression leading to physical and mental deterioration.
Plus, we may have risks of facing obstacles at work and in our relations , generally.
To move forward , we have to avoid neglecting that partner after the divorce.
Thus, to avoid sinking into melancholy, we can change the mode of life and engage in new activities or hang out with our friends.
In addition , we must take care of our nutrition because we tend to not take care of it after a divorce , alcohol is avoided.

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