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LES CAUSE DE DIVORCE DANS NOTRE VILLE DE BUKAVU

Moi je regrette beaucoup concernant les divorces qui se manifestent souvent dans notre ville urbain de Bukavu , nous rencontrons souvent dans nos milieu ou nous vivons les gens qui se séparent à cause de petites problèmes comme : si une fille se marie a un garçons et ce garçons demande à cette fille si elle est encore vierge et que la accepte ai moment qu'elle n'est plus alors ce garçon va la prendre en mariage et il rencontre que cette fille n'est plus vierge , a ce moment la ce garçon va demande le divorce. ça c'est la cause de divorce . encore il ya les hommes qui demandent le divorce car leurs femmes ne leurs donnent pas un baiser, un grand aliments ,ne leurs dit pas approcher quand il arrive à la maison...etc moi je suis désoler à cause de ces causes de divorce qui sont nombreux ici chez nous à bukavu . encore une autre cause quand la fille se marie a un garçon qu'elle n'aiment pas quand ils arrivent dans leur maisons la femme commence a faire ce qu'elle veut et quand le mari arrive il demande a sa femme pourquoi as-tu fais ça sa femme ne doit pas répondre a son question elle néglige ou elle répond avec une négligence parce que elle n'aime pas son mari comme il faut en continuant comme ça l'un d'eux va aller demande le divorce à l’état civil . encore si la femme est orgueilleuse l'homme va se divorce et si l'homme aussi cache a sa femme combien d'argent qu'il touche la ou il travail elle aussi part demande le divorce tout ça sont des causes de divorce. mon cœur est vraiment brisent à cause de ses divorce qui nous arrivent souvent dans notre ville de Bukavu . ce qui nous restent est de prier seulement le bon Dieu de nous aider a échapper tout ces conséquences de divorce ici chez nous.

English translation by community member HARMONY

THE CAUSE OF DIVORCE IN BUKAVU, OUR TOWN

I feel very bad concerning divorce and the causes of divorce in our urban town of Bukavu. We live with people who get separated because of insignificant problems.

If a boy wants to marry a girl, he will want to know if she is still a virgin. In the case the girl says she is a virgin, he will go ahead and marry her. But if it happens that she was not virgin before the weeding, the boy will ask for divorce.

Is this a cause for divorce?

There are men who are seeking divorce because their wives refuse to give them a kiss, dish them food as they want, does not wellcome them when they come home...

I feel so sorry for these reasons given here in bukavu.

When a girl is “someway forced” to marry a boy she does not love and enters his house, she will start misbehaving. If the man asks for explanation about her attitude, she will either ignore him or give him ready-made answers. At the end they will divorce. If a man thinks his wife is too proud or arrogant, he will file for divorce. If the man does not disclose the amount of his pay to the wife, we've got anonther case for Divorce.

My heart is truly broken because of his divorce issue in our town of Bukavu.
We are left with praying God to help us escape from all the consequences of these divorces issues.

Comments

HARMONY's picture

Lola tu as un cœur en or!

"mon cœur est vraiment brisent à cause de ses divorce qui nous arrivent souvent dans notre ville de Bukavu"

Tu as résumé ici l'effet du divorce sur le le cœur des enfants, des femmes et même de certains hommes.
Divorcer c'est briser comme tu l'as dit et nous savons tous qu'il est difficile de recoller les morceaux brisés.
Mais nous avons une missions, panser les plaies de nos sœurs, de tous ceux a qui le divorce brise le cœur. Et tu le fais bien, en parler, c'est chercher a guérir et je sais que tu trouveras la force d'aider les gens de ton village...

Merci de partager tes émotions avec nous.

Trust your HOPES, not your fears... Harmony

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Translation

THE CAUSE OF DIVORCE IN BUKAVU, OUR TOWN

I feel very bad concerning divorce and the causes of divorce in our urban town of Bukavu. We live with people who get separated because of insignificant problems.

If a boy wants to marry a girl, he will want to know if she is still a virgin. In the case the girl says she is a virgin, he will go ahead and marry her. But if it happens that she was not virgin before the weeding, the boy will ask for divorce.

Is this a cause for divorce?

There are men who are seeking divorce because their wives refuse to give them a kiss, dish them food as they want, does not wellcome them when they come home...

I feel so sorry for these reasons given here in bukavu.

When a girl is “someway forced” to marry a boy she does not love and enters his house, she will start misbehaving. If the man asks for explanation about her attitude, she will either ignore him or give him ready-made answers. At the end they will divorce. If a man thinks his wife is too proud or arrogant, he will file for divorce. If the man does not disclose the amount of his pay to the wife, we've got anonther case for Divorce.

My heart is truly broken because of his divorce issue in our town of Bukavu.
We are left with praying God to help us escape from all the consequences of these divorces issues.

Trust your HOPES, not your fears... Harmony

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