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Why traditional Chiefs like me must stand against child marriage ~ Chief Nzamane

Fathers and male elders make the decisions around early marriage. As Archbishop Desmond Tutu observed, “Where child marriage is in vogue, six of the eight millennium development goals, you can forget about.” It is imperative that, for the health and well-being of our communities, men take stands in opposing child marriage and supporting human rights for all.

Below is an article written by Chief Nzamane of Zambia challenging the practice of early marriage. It is hoped that his stand will have a ripple effect directly benefitting girls and women, families, communities, and beyond.

Why traditional Chiefs like me must stand against child marriage
I am a traditional chief or "Nkosi" in my language. My chiefdom is called Mfumbeni, it lies in the eastern part of Zambia and is home to about 325 villages. Each village has around 200-250 households with an average of seven members per family. My chiefdom of Mfumbeni amounts to more than half a million individuals.

I am responsible for my people's overall welfare. I look after the quality of their water– is it safe to drink? Do they have enough? What illnesses do they suffer? I speak on their behalf to the Government and make sure that they get the services they are untitled to such as healthcare.

Life is not easy, we really lack schools, HIV/AIDS is a problem and there are soaring levels of illiteracy. Poverty levels are high and most people depend on subsidized farming. Money can be very hard to come by.

Child marriage is a tradition here indeed, but I am determined to put an end to it. I simply don’t think it is God’s wish that girls should suffer. Just imagine the lifelong trauma you would suffer if you were married as a child. And I saw the negative impact that child marriage has not only on girls, but also on their own children, their families, and on all of us in the community. The truth is that by striving for the welfare of our girls we are striving for everyone's good. That is why I started to speak out against child marriage. Children are children; we must let them grow, we must look after them and send them to school.

A few years ago, I started a civic education programme where I reached out to people of my community. Together with my association, Mfumbeni Development Association, we run classes to explain to parents that their daughter’s bodies are not ready to carry a baby or to give birth to a child.

You see, for lack of education most parents are not even aware of the reproductive process and don’t understand the dangers that girls face when they give birth at such a tender age.

Also, in my chiefdom, it was common for girls to be given in marriage in exchange for a dowry or ‘bride price’. This was usually given in the form of cattle because when you have many cows, you are viewed as a wealthy person. I tell parents that they must not look at marriage as a source of income. I explain to them that education is a better investment in the long-term and that it will bring the family more resources.

Most parents respond positively, but sometimes I have to be firm. As their traditional leader, I have the right to reprimand those who cause harm to others. When I meet girls who have run away to escape a wedding that they did not choose, I go and talk to the families. But if they don’t want to listen to me, I reprimand them by making them repair communal roads for example or other facilities that we share as a community.

I have already seen a lot of change and more and more families are choosing education over marriage for their daughters. I am confident we can achieve this across the country.

Zambia has about 72 tribes and each of the tribes has their different customs and traditions. That is why we need chiefs from all over our country to speak out against this practice. But we cannot do this alone. We need our government to strengthen laws to prevent child marriage. We need them to take a stand and say that early marriage is not what we want for the children of Zambia.

I am a father of three children. My daughter is now grown up and she works for the Ministry of Foreign Affairs in Zambia. I am very proud of her. But I want this for all the girls in my chiefdom. I want to see them go to school, choose a future in which they can be self-reliant and marry when they choose.

[originally appeared on GirlsnotBrides.org. Photo Credit: Mbufene Development Association]

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pelamutunzi's picture

light at the end of the tunnel

when men start speaking outlike this then change will surely begin. i applaud the chief for his stance and i feel we need more like him.
im glad we have men like him.

we may be powerless to stop an injustice but let there never be a time we fail to protest.
regards
pela

JaniceW's picture

I agree

As Martin Luther King, Junior said "A genuine leader is not a searcher for consensus but a molder of consensus."

Cali gal Michelle's picture

Thank you for posting this.

Thank you for posting this. I read more about Chief Nzamane, and am so encouraged by his stance. I would like to say this to him, if I could: " My heart and soul are captured with the changes you are making, and the courage you have to stand against tradition for the sake of not only your own daughters, but daughters everywhere. As women, we are unified and strong. With Men standing with us, we will not be broken. Thank you."

Thank you for posting this. It is a beam of light that shines into the darkness of gender based violence.

Peace and Hope-
Michelle
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JaniceW's picture

Beautiful

Michelle, thank you for this. Feel free to post your response as a comment on the original post found in the below link. These men need all the encouragement we can give them.

http://www.girlsnotbrides.org/why-traditional-chiefs-like-me-must-stand-...

Kara-Amena's picture

Encouraging

I love this article, Janice! Thanks so much for posting it! It reminds me of a quote from Desmond Tutu that I love: "I am a prisoner of hope. I do believe that we men can help put a stop to these traditions. We can refuse to participate in them, and we can refuse to condone them. We can go further, and campaign against them." And I love Michelle's message to Chief Nzamane.

I hope all is well with you. Sending hugs from Vermont.

Kara

JaniceW's picture

Love the quote

Kara dearest, how are you? I had not heard that quote and will save it. His work with the Elders is so inspiring. Thank you for commenting. Sending you hugs back from windy NY on the morning of the NY marathon.
xx

pooza11's picture

thank u so much janicee..plz

thank u so much janicee..plz reply me as soon as she replies u....how have u been ?

JaniceW's picture

I will. Saphalhos.

Malai sanchai chha. Dhanybhad.

Hardik subhakamana,
Janice

pooza11's picture

Janice, Any replies?

Janice, Any replies?

SSD's picture

Thank you !

Dear Janice,

What a brilliant post ! I had done a painting on child-bride, titled' Lil Ma'am Child Bride' and another piece ' ..And, God is not Obliged' -- both the pieces are in my journal.

This article is very significant, indeed ! Keep inspiring us all. xx

had's picture

That's awesome!! A

That's awesome!!
A revolutionary traditional chief..that's what we all need to help us make the change !
Im shy to admit i have a little knowledge about this country;Zambia...
but now i can confidently say : i know about one of Zambia's great Nkosi(s); i know about Zambia :)

Thank you dear Janice
its really a great choice...
All love

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