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Quatre choses à savoir sur le divorce

Dans certains pays, le taux de divorce est monté en flèche ; or dans les années passée était relativement rare de divorcer !la culture de divorce, le taux a augmenté à un rythme phénoménal et continue de grimper dans toute les sociétés du monde ; le divorce est passé de à la règle.
Votre couple se trouve-t-il devant un tel choix ?il se peut que le conjoint ait trahi votre confiance, ou que de confits perpétuels aient privé votre relation de toute joie ; vous pouvez alors vous dire :on ne s’aime plus, ou nous ne sommes pas fait l’un pour l’autre ;quant on s’est marié, on ne savait pas ce qu’on faisait, vous pourriez même penser, on devrait peut-être divorcer.
Avant de décider à la hâte, de mettre fin à votre union, reflechissez.le le divorce ne supprime pas toujours les inquiétudes de la vie ; au contraire, le divorce c’est souvent échanger un lot de problème contre un autre. « Les couple qui se séparent fantasment sur le divorce parfait : d’un coup, la tourmente du conflit cède directement la place à la brise rafraichissante et réconfortante de la sérénité et du bien –être. Mais c’est une éternelle illusion, tout comme le mariage parfait ; d’où l l’importance d’être informé et d’abordé la question du divorce avec réalisme. »
Voyons quatre facteurs importants sur lequel il vous faut vous arrêter ; vous remarquerez qu’aucune des personnes divorcées qui dit avoir pris un la mauvaise décision .Ce pendant, leurs témoignages, mettent en évidence certaines des dificultés qui surgissent souvent dans le mois, voire les années suivant le divorce :
1. les problèmes financiers :le rupture d’un mariage sauvant des conséquences financiers catastrophique sur tout pour la femme
2. l’éducation des enfants : le divorce des parents à un choc terrible sur l’éducation des enfants
3. l’effet sur vous : vous pourriez éprouver une colère et un ressentiment persistants pour la façon dont vous vous êtez traité ; par moment la solitude pourrait devenir écrasante.
4 .l’effets sur les enfants : un divorcer pourrait être destructeur pour vos enfant, sur tout si vous ne les encouragez pas à entretenir de relations avec votre ex-conjoint.

English translation by community member Zhuyun Maggie Xiao

Four things to know about divorce

In some countries, the divorce rate has skyrocketed. In the past few years divorce was relatively rare. Divorce rate has increased at a phenomenal rate and continues to rise in societies all over the world; divorce has been out of control.

Do you couple find yourself facing such a choice? It may be that the spouse has betrayed your trust, or perpetual conflicts has deprived your relationship of joy; you may then say to your say: we do not love each other anymore, or we are not made for each other. As for we married, we did not know that what we were doing, you might even think that we should perhaps divorce.

Before deciding in haste to end your relationship, keep in mind that divorce does not remove all the anxieties in life; on the contrary, divorce, often exchange a lot of problems with another. “The couple who divorce fantasize for a perfect divorce: suddenly, the turmoil of conflict directly gives in to the refreshing breeze and comforting serenity and well-being. However, this is an eternal illusion, just like the perfect marriage; from which the importance of being informed and discussed divorce with realism.”

See four important factors which you need to stop and pay attention to; you notice that no one divorced saying he or she has made a bad decision. However, their testimonies mention certain difficulties always suddenly appear during the months and years following their divorce.

Financial problems: marriage breakdown saves the disastrous financial consequences for women
Education of children: parental divorce have a terrible choc over the education of children.
Effect on you: you may experience anger and persistent resentment for the ways you have been treated; at times, loneliness can become overwhelming.
Effect on children: A divorce can be destructive for your children, especially if you do not encourage them to maintain relationship with you ex-spouse.

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Four things to know about divorce

In some countries, the divorce rate has skyrocketed. In the past few years divorce was relatively rare. Divorce rate has increased at a phenomenal rate and continues to rise in societies all over the world; divorce has been out of control.

Do you couple find yourself facing such a choice? It may be that the spouse has betrayed your trust, or perpetual conflicts has deprived your relationship of joy; you may then say to your say: we do not love each other anymore, or we are not made for each other. As for we married, we did not know that what we were doing, you might even think that we should perhaps divorce.

Before deciding in haste to end your relationship, keep in mind that divorce does not remove all the anxieties in life; on the contrary, divorce, often exchange a lot of problems with another. “The couple who divorce fantasize for a perfect divorce: suddenly, the turmoil of conflict directly gives in to the refreshing breeze and comforting serenity and well-being. However, this is an eternal illusion, just like the perfect marriage; from which the importance of being informed and discussed divorce with realism.”

See four important factors which you need to stop and pay attention to; you notice that no one divorced saying he or she has made a bad decision. However, their testimonies mention certain difficulties always suddenly appear during the months and years following their divorce.

Financial problems: marriage breakdown saves the disastrous financial consequences for women
Education of children: parental divorce have a terrible choc over the education of children.
Effect on you: you may experience anger and persistent resentment for the ways you have been treated; at times, loneliness can become overwhelming.
Effect on children: A divorce can be destructive for your children, especially if you do not encourage them to maintain relationship with you ex-spouse.

Maggie Xiao
Student at Bryn Mawr College, PA, USA

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Un message bien écrit

Merci Buhendwa,

Votre article est bien écrit, et il explique beaucoup de choses importantes qui sont liés à divorce. C'est pareil que faisant une demande de divorce est un décision dur et les conjoints doivent bien réflechir avant de réagir car le divorce ne reste pas un problem entre les deux qui voulent divorcer, mais surtout poser un problem aux enfants et peut-être eux-mêmes.

Cordialment,
Maggie

Maggie Xiao
Student at Bryn Mawr College, PA, USA

BUHENDWA NEEMA's picture

merci!

juste dire merci pour le courage de me lire et me commenté; il est vraie que le gens divorce sans savoir les incovenient de la divorce;son impact se manifeste sur tout aux enfants;car sauvent ces eux qui sont destabilisés dans la nature et par fois traumatisés
merci!!!!

neema weza

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