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L'influence des amis

cause ou bien fait social
Question qu’on devait se pose :
-est-ce qu’on m’influence ?
-l’on m’influence, comment doit-je réagir ?
-Suggestion :
Etant donné que tout être humain est appelé vivré dans la société or le composant de la société ont des caractères différent.
ce pourquoi ce qui sont choisi comme ami ont une grande influence sur nous raison pour la quelle les question si haut serrent développées et nous proposons ce qui suis en posant les questions suivantes :
-Est-ce qu’on m’influence ?

En grandissant nous sommes appelées à être ainé et être accepté de nos camarades. lorsque certain ne trouve pas une bonne communication à la maison il cherche quelqu’un qui le comprenne et qui le donne le sentiment d’être aime et d’être utile dans la société. sauf que l’influence de nos camarades n’est pas forcement mauvaise car un proverbe dit : « le fer s’aigus par le fer. Ainsi un homme aiguise le visage d’un autre. » Même la Bible en proverbe
27 :17 L’acception aussi.
à personne en soit devrait se poser la question comme :doit-je agir comme mes camarades ?
-Comment réagir ?
Sachant que l’influence de nos amis peut être soit une épreuve nous devons chercher un comportement à tenir.
Par exemple : Al ‘école les élève sont influencés par les comportements des autres avec empressement.
Pour certaine fille l’âge de 13-18ans est difficile de dire à la fille qu’elle est vierge elle n’a pas un copain, il n’a pas encore fait une relation sexuel le, les moqueries de la manière d’habillement …
Des situations pareilles étant difficiles à affronter certaines filles cédant à l’influence de ces amis.
Suggestion :
Toute fois nous devons tourner le dos à nos camarades et bannir (éviter) la crainte de l’homme qui est considérée comme un piège pour tous les humains or cette crainte créée en nous un regret. Comment se fortifier pour résister à l’influence de nos camarades ?

English translation by community member hannahmunger

The influence of friends

The question that we should ask ourselves:
-Does he or she influence me?
-If he or she influences me, how should I react?

Suggestion:
Given that every human being in society lives through experiences, society is composed of different characters.

Which is why who we choose as our friends has a great influence on us and our reasoning. We must ask ourselves the following question: Does he or she influence me for the better?

Growing up, we are told to be mature and to be accepted by our peers. When there isn’t good communication at home, people look for someone who understands and gives the feeling of being loved and being useful in society. The influence of our peers is not necessarily bad as a proverb says: "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”

People are expected to ask themselves the question: Should I act like my friends? How should I react? Knowing that the influence of our friends can be a test, we must seek out the right behavior.

For example: At school students are very influenced by the behaviors of others. For many girls the age between 13 and 18 is very difficult. Girls are being told to stay virgin, to not have a boyfriend or have sex. Girls are also made fun of for the way they dress. Situations like this are very difficult for some girls who break under the negative influence of some of their friends.

Suggestion:
We need to build confidence to resist peer pressure and the fear of men who are considered to be a trap for all humans. This fear makes us feel regretful. How could we strengthen our will to resist the pressure of our peers.

Comments

hannahmunger's picture

Neema, Merci de partager vos

Neema,

Merci de partager vos pensées et pour exprimer vos sentiments sur World Pulse! Je pense que le sujet que vous avez choisi, l'influence des amis, est très universel et c'est quelque chose que tout le monde doit faire face à pendant chaque étape de la vie.

Vous êtes très courageux pour écrire à ce sujet et de donner le point de vue féminin.

Meilleurs vœux,
Hannah

hannahmunger's picture

Translation

The influence of friends

The question that we should ask ourselves:
-Does he or she influence me?
-If he or she influences me, how should I react?

Suggestion:
Given that every human being in society lives through experiences, society is composed of different characters.

Which is why who we choose as our friends has a great influence on us and our reasoning. We must ask ourselves the following question: Does he or she influence me for the better?

Growing up, we are told to be mature and to be accepted by our peers. When there isn’t good communication at home, people look for someone who understands and gives the feeling of being loved and being useful in society. The influence of our peers is not necessarily bad as a proverb says: "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”

People are expected to ask themselves the question: Should I act like my friends? How should I react? Knowing that the influence of our friends can be a test, we must seek out the right behavior.

For example: At school students are very influenced by the behaviors of others. For many girls the age between 13 and 18 is very difficult. Girls are being told to stay virgin, to not have a boyfriend or have sex. Girls are also made fun of for the way they dress. Situations like this are very difficult for some girls who break under the negative influence of some of their friends.

Suggestion:
We need to build confidence to resist peer pressure and the fear of men who are considered to be a trap for all humans. This fear makes us feel regretful. How could we strengthen our will to resist the pressure of our peers.

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