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L'INFLUENCE DES AMIE

Est ce qu'on m'influence?
si on m'influence, comment doit-je réagir?

Étant donné que tout être humain est appelé a vivre dans la société or le composant de la société ont des caractères différents.ce pourquoi ce qui sont choisis comme amie ont une grande influence sur nous .ce la raison pour la quelle le questions si haut seront développe et nous proposons ce qui suit en posant la question suivante:-est ce qu'on m'influence?

En grandissant nous sommes appelles à être aimé et accepte de nos camarades.lorsque certain ne trouve pas une bonne communication à la maison il cherche quelqu'un qui le donne le sentiment d’être aime et d’être utile dans la société.sauf que l'influence de nos camarade n'est pas forcement mauvaise car un proverbe dit :"le fer s’aiguisent par le fer. Ainsi un homme aiguisent un autre". a personne en soit devrait se poser la question comme: dois-je réagir comme me camarades?

-comment reagir?
Sachant que l'influence de nos amies peut etre soit une épreuve nous devons chercheun comportement à tenir.par example al'ecole les eleves sont influencés par les conportements des autres avec empressement.pour certaine fille l'âge de 13-18ans est difficile de dire àla fille qu'elle est vierge elle n'a pas un copain, elle n'a pas encort fait une relation sexuelle;le moquerie de la manière d'abillement.....
des situation pareil étant difficile à affronter certain fillecédent à l'influence de ses amie et risque d'être violée.
sugestion: Toute fois nous devons tourner le dos à nos camarades et banir la crainte de l'homme qui est considerée comme un piège pour tout les humains.or cette craintecréée en nous un regret . commentse fortifier pour resister à l'influencede nos camarades?

English translation by community member heidigjr

Does one influence me?
If one influences me, how must I act?

Given that every human being has to lives in a society, which is composed of different characters and personalities. This is why those that we choose for friends have a great influence on us. This is the reason why such important issues will develop and we propose the following question: - does one influences me?

When growing up, we are told to love and be accepting of our peers. When one doesn't have the right setting at home, one looks for someone who can provide the feeling of being loved and the feeling of being useful in society. Except the influence of our peers is not necessarily bad - as a proverb says, "Iron sharpens iron. In this way, a man sharpen another." Everyone needs to ask themselves this question: Must I act like my peers?

- How to act?
Knowing that peer pressure can be a test, we need to find ourselves. For example, students at school are easily influenced by the behavior of others. For 13-18 year old girls, it is difficult to be virgins, without boyfriends, to not have had sexual relationships, to be mocked in the way that she dresses...
These similar situations are difficult to deal with for certain girls, who can give in to peer pressure and risk being violated.

Suggestion: Nevertheless, we need to turn our backs on our peers and banish this fear of man, which can be considered a trap for humans. For this fear creates in us a regret. How do we strengthen ourselves to resist peer pressure?

Comments

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la pression de groupe

l'influence des amies est très important et la pression de groupe est de temps en temps vraiment écrasante... les âges de 13-18 ans sont le plus difficile dans la vie d'une femme jeune, je suis d'accorde... je me souviens toujours...

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Translation

Does one influence me?
If one influences me, how must I act?

Given that every human being has to lives in a society, which is composed of different characters and personalities. This is why those that we choose for friends have a great influence on us. This is the reason why such important issues will develop and we propose the following question: - does one influences me?

When growing up, we are told to love and be accepting of our peers. When one doesn't have the right setting at home, one looks for someone who can provide the feeling of being loved and the feeling of being useful in society. Except the influence of our peers is not necessarily bad - as a proverb says, "Iron sharpens iron. In this way, a man sharpen another." Everyone needs to ask themselves this question: Must I act like my peers?

- How to act?
Knowing that peer pressure can be a test, we need to find ourselves. For example, students at school are easily influenced by the behavior of others. For 13-18 year old girls, it is difficult to be virgins, without boyfriends, to not have had sexual relationships, to be mocked in the way that she dresses...
These similar situations are difficult to deal with for certain girls, who can give in to peer pressure and risk being violated.

Suggestion: Nevertheless, we need to turn our backs on our peers and banish this fear of man, which can be considered a trap for humans. For this fear creates in us a regret. How do we strengthen ourselves to resist peer pressure?

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