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LA SEXUALITE ET LA MORALITE

Quand on s’aime l’un de l’autre, peut-on avoir de relations sexuelles ou bien faut-il attendre le mariage ? ce genre des questions est très courant chez les jeunes. Il empêche le jeune qui n’a pas eu de relation sexuelle pendant son adolescence est une exception. Après le désir d’être aimé est naturel et quand on est jeune, les passions peuvent être puissantes au point de faire perdre la tête. Il y a aussi l’influence de nos camarades. il est possible qu’ils nous disent que les relations pré conjugales sont agréables et que lorsqu’on aime vraiment quelqu’un il est normal de souhaiter avoir des contacts intimes avec cette personne.
Il en est qui iront jus qu’à dire que les relations sexuelles sont une de vérité chez un garçon et de féminité chez une fille. Ne voulant pas connaître l’union charnelle. contrairement à ce que l’on croit généralement, tous les jeunes n’ont pas hâte de renoncer à leur virginité . il arrivait qu’une femme immorale invite un jeune homme en lui disant : « viens, abreuvons-nous d’amour jusqu'au matin, regardons-nous ensemble des témoignages d’amour »
Parmi les suites possibles, il y a les sexuellement transmissible. Imaginez le chagrin de celui qui des années plus tard, apprend qu’une expérience sexuelle est cause de dommages irréversibles tels que la stérilité ou une maladie grave à gémir dans ton avenir quand ta chair et ton organisme arriveront à leur fin. Les relations sexuelles avant le mariage mènent aussi à la grossesse illégitime à l’avortement et au mariage prématuré avec leurs conséquences douloureuses.
Reconnaissant ces dangers « nous nous vantons devant nos jeunes de nos progrès en matière de contraception et de traitement des maladies vénériennes, méprisant le plus sûr et le mieux adapté, le moins cher et le moins toxique, capable à la fois d’éviter la grossesse et les maladies vénériennes à sa voir l’état ancien, honorable et sain de virginité ».
Beaucoup des jeunes ont également découvert que les relations sexuelles pré conjugale déçoivent amèrement par ce qu’elles gardent un sentiment de culpabilité et la perte du respect de soi-même « vraiment, ce lui a une vie sexuelle avant le mariage pèche contre son propre corps » . Ainsi, vous moissonnerez ce que vous avez semé . semez la passion, vous récolterez une moisson de doutes et d’incertitudes. En revanche, si vous semez la maîtrise de soi, vous moissonnerez la fidélité et la confiance.

English translation by community member liannareed

Sexuality and morality
When one likes another person one can have sexual relations or is it better to wait for marriage? These types of questions are very common among the young. Asking oneself the question about sex is the exception. After all the desire to be liked is natural and when one is young the passions can be powerful to the point of losing one’s head. There is also the influence of our friends. It is possible that they tell us that the pre-martial relations are nice and that when we really like someone it is normal to wish to have intimate contact with this person.

There are those who go so far as to say that sexual relations are the truth of boys and the femininity of girls. Not wanting to know the sexual union, contrary to what one generally believes, not everyone wants to give up their virginity. It arrives when an immoral woman invites a young men saying to him, “Come, let us drink love until the morning and let us tell love stories.”

Among the possible developments there are sexually transmittable diseases. Imagine the grief of someone, who years later, learns that a sexual experience causes irreversible damages like that of sterility, or a horrible illness that grows within your flesh and your body until the end. Sexual relations before marriage bring also illegitimate pregnancy and abortion and premature marriage leading to other unpleasant consequences. Recognizing these dangers, “we praise our youth on our progress in contraceptive care and the treatment of venereal disease, dispensing the most effective, best adapted, least expensive, least toxic contraception. We are capable of avoiding pregnancy at the same time as avoiding venereal disease to bring the body back to its former state, honorable and a healthy virginity.”

A lot of young people are equally let down and bitter by discovering sexual relations before marriage because they keep the guilty feeling and the loss of self-respect. “Really, it is he who has a sexual life before marriage that sins against his body.” So we reap what we have sown, sow the passion; gather what we reap of doubt and incertitude. On the other hand if you practice self-control you earn fidelity and confidence.

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Translation

Sexuality and morality
When one likes another person one can have sexual relations or is it better to wait for marriage? These types of questions are very common among the young. Asking oneself the question about sex is the exception. After all the desire to be liked is natural and when one is young the passions can be powerful to the point of losing one’s head. There is also the influence of our friends. It is possible that they tell us that the pre-martial relations are nice and that when we really like someone it is normal to wish to have intimate contact with this person.
There are those who go so far as to say that sexual relations are the truth of boys and the femininity of girls. Not wanting to know the sexual union, contrary to what one generally believes, not everyone wants to give up their virginity. It arrives when an immoral woman invites a young men saying to him, “Come, let us drink love until the morning and let us tell love stories.”
Among the possible developments there are sexually transmittable diseases. Imagine the grief of someone, who years later, learns that a sexual experience causes irreversible damages like that of sterility, or a horrible illness that grows within your flesh and your body until the end. Sexual relations before marriage bring also illegitimate pregnancy and abortion and premature marriage leading to other unpleasant consequences. Recognizing these dangers, “we praise our youth on our progress in contraceptive care and the treatment of venereal disease, dispensing the most effective, best adapted, least expensive, least toxic contraception. We are capable of avoiding pregnancy at the same time as avoiding venereal disease to bring the body back to its former state, honorable and a healthy virginity.”
A lot of young people are equally let down and bitter by discovering sexual relations before marriage because they keep the guilty feeling and the loss of self-respect. “Really, it is he who has a sexual life before marriage that sins against his body.” So we reap what we have sown, sow the passion; gather what we reap of doubt and incertitude. On the other hand if you practice self-control you earn fidelity and confidence.

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Je trouve que vous avez une

Je trouve que vous avez une très bonne compréhension des relations sexuelles dans votre pays et dans votre culture. Est-ce que vous avez des suggestions de comment les jeunes peuvent être plus prudent et soigneux autour des relations sexuelles. J’imagine qu’il est difficile d’enseigner toutes les techniques de sexuels protégés et les contraceptives s’ils les jeunes font ce qu’ils veulent. Est-ce qu’il y a beaucoup de problèmes avec la grossesse de jeune filles au Congo?

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