Give a woman EMOTIONAL stability and she will do just about anything!
We women are born with the capacity to feel deeply, so it's as natural as breathing to experience a range of emotions. fear, joy and sadness, anger and shame and disgust lie somewhere within each of us. We go through so many different things that in most cases, only your fellow woman would understand/know exactly how you feel/what you're going through. What we need is to ask ourselves "to what extent do we control these emotions, and to what extent do they control us?" I've come to realize that how we answer these questions of how our emotions play out in our lives has a great deal to do with our levels of personal satisfaction and with the character of our relationships with others. So many women are voiceless and drowning in their emotions which are controlling their lives because most of them don't have that "light" to help them see, no hand to pull them out.
Everyone runs into those moments when emotions rise up and you get caught off guard. Would be very good for us to start where we are, to use what you can to help our voiceless women stand up with confidence, for them to be able to remain unflappable and clear-headed. Life at times comes at us just like this, we need to help other women learn to face such moments steady, composed, and as solid as a rock, whether sickness or abuse. A fundamental truth about us when it comes to our emotional world is that we are very confident and very secure.
Let us continue to encourage the broken voices and fight together, they will see you as just the person they need in such tumultuous times. they need a steady companion, they need our calm and confident friendship. This emotional world seems to be spinning fast, let us let women emotionally damaged know we are there to talk and think their way through their turmoil. I know for a fact that once a woman is steady emotionally, she can do just about everything.
Some women don't know how to begin the kind of conversation that would allow them to share whatever is in their personal stories that they'd like or need to talk about and others disclose only what's on the surface. We could make that easier for such people, with words. some people just need an example and a little encouragement to come out of their shell and personal connectedness that will make their lives so much more satisfying. Again, YOU might be the right person to make that happen for them, so let us keep going strong in sisterly love, be a hand, be a light.