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Les violence faite aux filles

voici une histoire d'une fille qui s'apelle Gikukundiro sophie ella été violé avec 18ans
c' est àminembwe ;dans notre village la où nous sommes grandi iln'yapas des écoles
onété oblige d'aller dans l'outre endroi pour des raisons de cherche les études
c'est pourquoi je quitte ma famille pour aller étudie cette en 2010 vers fin d’année ilya un garçon qui m'arencotre
dans le chemin vers domicile il m'a violé sexuellement apre un mois jai constate que je suis enceinte je me prépare
de rentre à mon village natal apre savoir arrivé je ne pas meme renconte ses histoire à mes parents par ce que javais la hontes que mes parents va pense l'outre chose que c'est ne pas la violence c'est volontairement
ou moment où mes parents savait que je suis enceinte ilsonts entre de me poses beaucoup des question
par ce que j'été très triste je n’a pas ré ponds tous ces questions m'a réponse c' est l'arme
après je leurs dit la verite mon père se rendre à minembwe pour cherche ce garçon pas le trouve
pendants laperiode d'acouchement iln'yapas les médecin qualifier javais problème très sérieux les infirmier me donne transi fers vers une hôpital le médecin sont obliger de faire une ses arienne par ce que l’enfant sont mal forme
l'enfant n'a pas résiste il mourez directement .
jus qu'à maintenant moi même je me considérer comme quel qu'un qui na pas des valeurs dans les communaute
je ne peut pas oublie c'est jour de m'a violence et mes souffrance

English translation by community member Morgan

Here is the story of a girl named Gikukundiro Sophie. She was raped when she was 18 in Mimembwe, our village where we grew up. There aren’t any schools, so we had to go elsewhere to study. This is why I left my family in 2010. Towards the end of the year, a boy passing by in the same street that I was taking to go home sexually assaulted me and raped me. A month later, I realized I was pregnant. And so, I got ready to go home back in my natal village. I did not tell my story to my parents because I was ashamed that they think otherwise, that it wasn’t violence done to me but voluntary pregnancy. When my parents knew I was pregnant , they asked me so many questions. Because I was so sad, I did not say anything at first but my answer became the weapon. Once I’d told them the truth, my dad went to Mimembwe to try and find this boy. He did not find him.
During the birth, there wasn’t any qualified doctor. I really had serious problems so the nurse accepted to transfer me to a hospital. Doctors were obliged to do a caesarian. The infant was malformed and didn’t survived, he died straight away.
To this day, I still see myself as someone who is worthless to the community. I can’t forget this day of violence and my suffering.

Comments

nantebuka's picture

Sevrai cette histoire est

Sevrai cette histoire est terible il faut que les femmes songe a cette histiore

muhorakeye's picture

tues parmis les femmes tre

tues parmis les femmes tre courageuse cotinuer nous somme ensemble

Muhorakeye Esperance

Morgan's picture

Merci! / Thanks!

Merci Sophie d’avoir partagé votre histoire. Très émouvante et forte. Elle illustre si bien les effets long terme du viol, et souligne les innombrables difficultés que vous avez dû surmonter et continuez de connaître – et que sûrement beaucoup de femmes victimes de viol continue de subir. Le fait que vous n’ayez pas pu trouver l’auteur du crime ne contribue sûrement pas à ce que vous vous sentiez en paix. Peut-être, continuer à partager votre expérience peut vous aider à trouver un apaisement. Comme vous l’avez si bien dit, dire est une arme. Et donc, encore une fois, merci beaucoup pour avoir eu le courage de partager votre histoire avec la communauté WorldPulse : nous attachons une grande importance à votre contribution et à votre courage.
Vous avez dit qu’il n’y avait pas de docteur qualifié à l’époque dans votre village pour vous assister. Est-ce que c’est toujours le cas ?

Bien à vous,

Morgan

Thanks Sophie for sharing your story. Very moving and powerful . It illustrates so well the long term impact of rape, and highlights the countless difficulties you had to face and still continuing to face – and that surely so many women victims of rape are continuing to experience. The fact that you haven’t been able to find the perpetrator surely doesn’t contribute to you feeling at peace. Perhaps, continuing to share your experiences can go towards alleviating some of the feelings you may have. As you said so well, speaking out can be a weapon. So again, many thanks for having the courage to speak up and sharing your story with the World Pulse community: we value your contribution and your courage.
You said that there was not any qualified doctor at the time in your village to assist you . Is it still the case?

In solidarity,

Morgan

Morgan's picture

TRANSLATION

Here is the story of a girl named Gikukundiro Sophie. She was raped when she was 18 in Mimembwe, our village where we grew up. There aren’t any schools, so we had to go elsewhere to study. This is why I left my family in 2010. Towards the end of the year, a boy passing by in the same street that I was taking to go home sexually assaulted me and raped me. A month later, I realized I was pregnant. And so, I got ready to go home back in my natal village. I did not tell my story to my parents because I was ashamed that they think otherwise, that it wasn’t violence done to me but voluntary pregnancy. When my parents knew I was pregnant , they asked me so many questions. Because I was so sad, I did not say anything at first but my answer became the weapon. Once I’d told them the truth, my dad went to Mimembwe to try and find this boy. He did not find him.
During the birth, there wasn’t any qualified doctor. I really had serious problems so the nurse accepted to transfer me to a hospital. Doctors were obliged to do a caesarian. The infant was malformed and didn’t survived, he died straight away.
To this day, I still see myself as someone who is worthless to the community. I can’t forget this day of violence and my suffering.

muhorakeye's picture

merci

merci d'avoir commenter mon journal. cevrai des au jaurdhui dans certaines hopitaux il n'ya pas les docteurs qualifies pour mien sauve les victime

Muhorakeye Esperance

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