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sortes de violations

Les violences se fait en plusieurs sorte :
Ce qui se fait par un voisin, par un ami ou un membre de la famille
Sois vigilante : quand tu es dans la rue fait attention à ce qui se passe devant toi, derrière toi et sur les côtes. Certains quartiers sont réputés dangereux, surtout la nuit. Autant que possible évite-les
Ne donne pas une fausse impression : ne t’habille pas de manière provocante. Tu risquerais de donner l’impression que tu as envie de relations physique, ou du moins que tu ne pas contre
Aborde la question des limites : si tu fréquentes un garçon, ne passe en revue avec lui ce qui constitue ou non une conduite convenable. Une fois les limites fixées, ne te mets pas dans des situations compromettantes et propices à une agression.

Voici le parole que les hommes utilise pour nous trompe :
- Tout le monde a des relations sexuelles
- Personne ne le saura
- Si tu m’aimais tu le ferais
Ne te laisse pas embobiner par un garçon qui essaie de te faire croire que sexe=amour. En réalité celui qui raisonne ainsi ne cherche que son propre plaisir. Il ne panse ni a toi ni a ton bonheur. En revanche un homme digne de ce nom met tes intérêts avant les siens et prouve qu’il a la force d’obéir a tes principes moreaux. Un homme digne de ce nom traite les filles comme des objets sexuels.
Sois prudente : ne donne jamais de renseignement personnelles ni ne poste de photos permettant de te localise. Si tu reçois un message érotique en générale la meilleure réponse c’est le silence. Le silence met en échec la plupart des prédateurs en ligne.
En suivant ces conseils tu seras moins vulnérable.
Nous méritons les hommes seule de ces noms qui respectent nos corps et nos principes
Merci je vous aime beaucoup

English translation by community member ambrob13

Violence is carried out in several forms:
Those that have it done to them is carried out either by a neighbor, by a friend or a family member.
Be vigilant: when you are in the street, pay attention to who is passing in front of you, behind you and on your sides. Certain neighborhoods have a reputation for being dangerous, especially during the night. Avoid them as much as possible.
Do not give a false impression: Do not dress in a provocative way. You risk giving the impression that you want a physical relationship, or at least that you are not against it.
Reach a consensus on limits: If you are dating a boy, go over what is or is not proper behavior. Once the limit is set, do not put yourself in compromising situations that are conducive to aggression.
Here is the language that men use to deceive us:
- Everyone has sexual relations
- No one will know
- If you love me you will do it
Do not be fooled by a boy who is trying to make you believe that sex=love. In reality, he that reasons this is only seeking his own pleasure. He is neither thinking of you nor your happiness. On the other hand, a man worthy of the name puts your interests before his own and proves that he has the strength to obey your moral principles. A man not worthy of the name treats girls as sex objects.
Be prudent: Never give out personal information, nor post pictures that may allow someone to figure out your location. If you receive an erotic message, in general the best answer is silence. The silence fails most predators.
In following these tips you will be less vulnerable.
We deserve only men that can honestly go by that name, who respect our bodies and our principles.
Thank you, I love you very much.

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English Translation

Violence is carried out in several forms:
Those that have it done to them is carried out either by a neighbor, by a friend or a family member.
Be vigilant: when you are in the street, pay attention to who is passing in front of you, behind you and on your sides. Certain neighborhoods have a reputation for being dangerous, especially during the night. Avoid them as much as possible.
Do not give a false impression: Do not dress in a provocative way. You risk giving the impression that you want a physical relationship, or at least that you are not against it.
Reach a consensus on limits: If you are dating a boy, go over what is or is not proper behavior. Once the limit is set, do not put yourself in compromising situations that are conducive to aggression.
Here is the language that men use to deceive us:
- Everyone has sexual relations
- No one will know
- If you love me you will do it
Do not be fooled by a boy who is trying to make you believe that sex=love. In reality, he that reasons this is only seeking his own pleasure. He is neither thinking of you nor your happiness. On the other hand, a man worthy of the name puts your interests before his own and proves that he has the strength to obey your moral principles. A man not worthy of the name treats girls as sex objects.
Be prudent: Never give out personal information, nor post pictures that may allow someone to figure out your location. If you receive an erotic message, in general the best answer is silence. The silence fails most predators.
In following these tips you will be less vulnerable.
We deserve only men that can honestly go by that name, who respect our bodies and our principles.
Thank you, I love you very much.

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