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Je suis née le 07/02/1990 nous sommes au nombre de deux enfant Garçon et moi et suis la cadette de ma famille à l’âge de 3ans mon Père m’avais abandonnée jusqu’à l’âge de 6ans je l’aimer beaucoup mais malheureusement il na pas fait accomplir mon affection que j’avais envers lui je beaucoup souffert par cette manque d’affection mais je remercie beaucoup ma maman qui ma garde a cette âge là que j’avais besoin de mon Papa elle ma fait comprendre toute chose et mena suis âgée de 23ans mais mon Papa ma beaucoup manque je cette blessure car quand je vois les autres avec leurs pères qui les aime beaucoup je me sent très mal mais je ne rien a faire. Suis comme quelque qui na pas le père alors que mon Papa existe encore mais il ne veut pas de moi. Ma vie n’été pas facile ma Maman à beaucoup souffert a cause de nous faire grandure et me faire étudier je seulement un Diplôme d’Etat et je fait une formation en n’Informatique ce la ou elle se limite mais j’aimerai continué mais pas possible car elle na plus de force pour me faire continué en plus je besoin de connaitre l’anglais ou trouvé quelque qui le parle pour m’habitué mais pour le connaitre il faut une formation et qui demande une moyen. J’encourage toutes autres qui est comme moi. Merci beaucoup

English translation by community member Alex Kivley

MY LIFE

I was born on 07/02/1990. In my family we are two in number with one boy and I am the youngest in my family. At the age of 3, my father had left me until the age of 6. I like him very much, but unfortunately it did not achieve my affection that I could have towards him. I suffered a lot by this lack of affection, but I thank my mom who took care of me at that age because I needed my Dad. She made ​​me understand everything and I am now 23 years old but my dad missed me a lot. I have this wound because when I see others with their fathers that love I feel very bad but I do not do anything. I'm like someone who does not have a father as my dad still exists but he does not want me. My life was not easy because my mom suffered a lot because of how we grew up and made ​​me study, only me, for a State Diploma, and I did a training on IT which is restricted. I would like to continue but this is not possible because she has no more strength to help me continue. In addition, I need to know English or find someone who speaks it in order to accustom myself. . But to know some one, it takes training and requires a medium. I encourage all others who are like me. thank you very much

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MY LIFE

I was born on 07/02/1990. In my family we are two in number with one boy and I am the youngest in my family. At the age of 3, my father had left me until the age of 6. I like him very much, but unfortunately it did not achieve my affection that I could have towards him. I suffered a lot by this lack of affection, but I thank my mom who took care of me at that age because I needed my Dad. She made ​​me understand everything and I am now 23 years old but my dad missed me a lot. I have this wound because when I see others with their fathers that love I feel very bad but I do not do anything. I'm like someone who does not have a father as my dad still exists but he does not want me. My life was not easy because my mom suffered a lot because of how we grew up and made ​​me study, only me, for a State Diploma, and I did a training or IT which is restricted. I would like to continue but this is not possible because she has no more strength to help me continue. In addition, I need to know English or find someone who speaks it in order to accustom myself. . But to know some one, it takes training and requires a medium. I encourage all others who are like me. thank you very much

"Discovery consists not in seeking new lands but in seeing with new eyes."
~Marcel Proust

Salut Bayo,

Je suis désolé d'apprendre de l'absence de votre père pendant votre enfance. Mais je veux que vous sachiez que peu importe quel genre d'enfance que vous aviez, vous devriez être fier de vous parce que vous avez étudié et vous avez une force elastique. Maintenant, il pourrait être trop tard pour vous de le considérer comme un père, mais peut-être, vous pouvez le considérer comme un ami. Peut-être c'est mieux que d'avoir aucune relation du tout? En ce qui concerne vos études, je vous encourage à trouver un moyen de continuer - il est un excellent outil pour améliorer non seulement vous, mais ceux qui vous entourent.

Merci beaucoup pour le partage!

J'espère que vous allez bien,

Alex Kivley

Hi Bayo

I am sorry to hear of your father's absence during your childhood. But I want you to know that no matter what kind of childhood you had, you should be proud of yourself because you have studied and you have a resilient strength. Now it might be too late for you to consider him as a father, but perhaps you can consider him as a friend. Perhaps this is better than having no relationship at all? Regarding your studies, I encourage you to find a way to continue - it is a great tool to improve not only you but those around you.

Thank you so much for sharing!

I hope you are well,

Alex Kivley

"Discovery consists not in seeking new lands but in seeing with new eyes."
~Marcel Proust

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