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A Virtual Serendipity

Being born and brought up in a region where gross discrimination with the fairer gender has been the norm since decades, it is almost impossible for a thinking human to be a mute spectator. For us Indian females, our story begins right from the wombs of our mothers. Where many of the female fetuses are conveniently aborted, there are others who are granted the right to live. All through my growing years I have realized that there has been a paradigm shift in type of violence and discrimination that confront us. Now we have sound access to education and thus are empowered to take better decision for ourselves.

With rise in the population of educated and working women, the level of domestic violence has risen alarmingly. Since the perpetrator of such crimes is the husband in whom a woman places all her trust, the quantum of psychological trauma that she endures is huge. Some males do it in the name of religion, some to assert their masculinity and some at the behest of their mothers, sisters and kin. Whatever be the motives behind such heinous acts, they cannot be condoned. My sibling has been suffering silently from domestic violence in her marriage of five years. With the support from the rest of the family, she mustered courage to rein in the violent tendencies of her spouse through legal intervention. In my married life, I felt that I could not stand the violently abusive nature of my mother-in-law anymore, especially after I became pregnant. I knew that somewhere I had to draw a line. Mine has been a case of a mother-in-law torturing a pregnant daughter-in-law earlier for dowry and now for every trivial issue that might crop up in day-to-day life. Since I had worked hard in my academics from the start and had been conscious of my rights as a woman, it never occurred to me that I would ever encounter domestic violence in my own life. My mother-in-law has been trying her best to make my upcoming motherhood a challenging one by turning her son into a pawn in the game of family power dynamics.

It was in such moment of torment that I came across World Pulse community and discovered the Voices of Future program. I call this serendipity. My inner-being was seeking an outlet to let out what it has gone through in the last three months. Injustice anywhere is threat to justice everywhere. This is what has pushed me to explore the locus of this vicious circle of subjugation and exploitation that has pervaded every strata of the society. The painful part is that many of the female counterparts of my country are made to accept this as part of their destiny. All these agonies and trauma that I have gone through have firmed up my resolve to find viable solutions for eliminating the menace of domestic violence by tapping into the universal synergy of this wonderful forum.

Comments

Sharontina's picture

my story

I find my story in yours dear. i could identify a bit here and there, i could see me there. Thanks for sharing that. we are waiting to hear your thoughts and views dear. Go ahead.

love from India, from the south.

Merlin Sharontina

Amina_3's picture

Thanks for the support

Hi Sharontina,

Thank you so much for your empathy and kind words.

Warm regards,
Amina

Rhoda Robinson's picture

Do not give up

At times like this, the whole world feels like they have abandoned you. I hope you find the strength you need to overcome this struggle and reinvent your happiness in your home. You will always have the support of this community and my warmest thoughts.

Rhoda Robinson
Director, Adminsitration
Coordinator, Hands up for HER Campaign
www.hacey.org
handsupforher.wordpress.com

Amina_3's picture

Thanks Rhoda

Hi Rhoda,

Thank you so much for your encouragement and support.

Warm regards,
Amina

Veronique_S's picture

Hi Amina, This article was

Hi Amina,

This article was intriguing and as I journeyed along the lines, such yoke of understanding stirred my memory of the vulnerable lot in the midst of us.It was written with much precision and deliberation so as to engage the readers, and it captured my attention.

Not the similar story line but I was looking for a release like you, I came in one morning to work with a passion to find something that contributes to change and it was in the line of women, I then googled and that’s where I stumbled across “World Pulse”.

Life provides us with the answers that we seek and I believe Amina the answer was boldly sounded as fate connected you to World Pulse.

Thank you for sharing and I wish you the best your endeavours.

Veronique_Candace

Amina_3's picture

Thank you Veronique

Hi Veronique,

Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words. I hope together we all can make a big difference.

Warm regards,
Amina

Rebecca Andruszka's picture

Thank you

Amina, I certainly hope that you find the community you are seeking here on World Pulse (I'm pretty sure you will!). Writing and truth-telling can help us all heal--not just the author, but the reader as well. I look froward to reading more of your work.

Amina_3's picture

I am grateful

Hi Rebecca,

I am so grateful for your warm response. Writing is indeed a catharsis for every sufferer.

Kind regards,
Amina

aimeeknight's picture

I'm glad you have found World

I'm glad you have found World Pulse; a safe place to tell your story. Welcome! I look forward to your future writings.

"One shoe can change a life" ~ Cinderella

Amina_3's picture

Thanks Aimee

Hi Aimee,

Thank you so much for your warm welcome and cheerful words.

Kind regards,
Amina

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