Community Update

Digital Empowerment Toolkit Now Available!

At World Pulse, we recognize the need for ongoing learning—for you and for your community! Our toolkits aim to provide the resources you need to advance your social change work.

We are excited to introduce our Digital Empowerment Trainers’ Toolkit, a dynamic resource to help you bring the benefits of connecting online to women in your community. Check it out today! »

EVER THOUGHT OF THE EFFECT OF EXTENDED FAMILLY

It is an Africa culture that we live together,aunt,uncle,cousin and etc.
This has been our life style,almost 94% of African family are extended.
By staying together we believe its our way to display love and generosity,
also it is herited thing,because the elder brother or sister while growing up
there told to work hard so as to take care of his young ones and this is up
to when his/she is married. I grow-up in extended family,am not criticizing it but
am only sharing my experience.

Parents, guidance and all those who carry the responsibility of parents in spite our
way of showing love,giving support to in our family who are in need,we forget that
our children needs us.

With extended family we fail......
Lack of affection. Love is divided,as parent try so much to equalize affection so that his relatives
shouldn't feel bad same as to the children. The ability to know the true characteristic of children is so low,hence can't correct nor develop those discovered,this is why we are poor in discovering our kids ability at an early stage. It's difficult to acquire trust from the children because there is luck of private time together,your not the only source of information to them at home.
please do not get me wrong on the existence of extended family, but your children s wish to share with you a lot of things its just too crowdy

Comments

Wendyiscalm's picture

Your article

This is very interesting and thought-provoking.

Thank you.

Ubuntu

Wendy

Wendy Stebbins
Founder/CEO
I AM ONE IN A MILLION Non-Profit Organization focused on helping street orphans and vulnerable children in Livingstone, Zambia Africa.

Ooh thanks for reading it....

Bonjour
Je viens de lire votre histoire
Ceci m’intéresse bien car elle cadre avec ma lutte.Je considère que les coutumes africaines doivent être revisses a la lumière de l’évangile et des lois modernes.Si pas cela,nous allons perdurer sous la malédiction et le sous-développement.
Merci
Brigitte

BRIGITTE MAWAZO

Domina Msonge's picture

Extended Family

You are right Olive.
In my family. we grow up with the extended family too. Children are taking responsibility of their old parents like building house for them, providing money for survival since parents were not able to save money for the basic need and future.
It is time for change!
Domina

Domina

Magazine »

Read global coverage through women's eyes

Inside Congo's Growing Sisterhood

Inside Congo's Growing Sisterhood

Community »

Connect with women on the ground worldwide

PAKISTAN: They Went to School and Never Came Back

PAKISTAN: They Went to School and Never Came Back

Campaigns »

Be heard at influential forums

WWW: Women Weave the Web

WWW: Women Weave the Web

Programs »

Help us train women citizen journalists

World Pulse Voices of Our Future

World Pulse Voices of Our Future

Blog »

Read the latest from World Pulse headquarters

Announcing Our Prize Winners!

Announcing Our Prize Winners!

Partners »

Join forces with our wide network of partners

Nobel Women's Initiative

Nobel Women's Initiative