Stop Sadistic death of women
by Monu Gupta | December 31, 2012 at 9:22 AM
Stop sadistic death of women
In the Indian sub-continent, marriage simply is a social and legal contact in between one male and one female to live accompanied by fairly. Though, different religion indicates marriage is fit in to practice to religious conviction. It is necessary now-a-days to complete a legal deed during the moment of marriage in some countries. However, virtually a complete wedding ceremony stands for man and woman accompanying equal needs and sharing, love and respect, pain and pleasure as well. In adding with a mutual appealing commitment has to be agreed by wedding couple to carrying out mutual responsibilities during their whole life.
Sex is an important episode of total installments of sharing of life which entirely instigate and move through love lane in between a pair man-woman. Even some other birds and animals very endearingly swim in the ocean of love before get in touch with sex among duo. But, in the name of this social contact for human beings, it does not the swallow the trade mark to a man to behave with his counter-part woman a breathing machine of erotic science only.
Universally, man and woman, each one certain have human rights to choice and sex and equal sharing of participation. Based on nourished benevolent values and behave, education and civilization, science and sense, morals and culture, in the name of wife, how a man wish violently to congregate and execute his lustful with a woman!!!! It is a strong violation of women’s human rights and the man must be punished whenever do such manner with his woman partner.
In Bengali language, the meaning of husband is Lord/master/owner/proprietor etc and the sense of each word tremendously keeps women under enemy (man) control not with a partner of life. Similarly, the meaning of wife is no more than woman. A boy and or girl become learn these meaning of words during their childhood at primary education syllabus. With the childhood learning as well as the social identity of husband, consciously and sub-consciously very unfair manners in his matrimonial life often come out from man to a woman. Here, men merely victim of social learning and under the present civilization urgently needs to change the meaning of husband in Bengali language replacing with an appropriate word for the coming generation soonest.
Daughter of India, sister Amanath who became victim of mind-boggling sexual torture couple of days ago. Only 23 years old Sister Amanath was heroically fighting under treatment to survive and to live in a beautiful world until last breathing. Finally she lay down to death and went far away intensely hatred the men and the wild man of a discriminated earth. In the meantime numbers of gang rape occurred in different provinces of India. The rate of rape in India has shockingly increased 873.3% during the period 1971(no of rape was 2487)-2011(no of rape is 24206). The data indicates very undoubtedly women are living in India unsafe and rate of violence obviously beyond imagination.
Across the world, every body knows well the established definition of Rape and no division and sub-division of rape. Rape is rape whether it is marital and or non-marital. Rape always represents is an optimal legal offence and the rapist is liable to be punished.
In recent time, the High court of India has given a judgment that marital rape is not a punishable offence at all. By this verdict, the court of India has ignored the Sex rights of women. Sex right of women is a fundamental human right. Wedding not at all stand for one and only authorization to man as he likes to joy with a woman’s body and a woman by no means slaughter her fundamental rights to a man by wedding. The verdict directly would be stimulated the rapist attitude of men at home and outside equivalently in India as well as other South Asian countries than present facts of rape. Therefore, marital rape must bring under punishment similarly.
The world peoples let knows a few of incidents of rape (Delhi spot) and or cruelty to women (Dr. Sajia Arefin of BRAC in Bangladesh) or Malalama (Pakistan). Large number of similar incidents is remaining behind information. Lots of brutal violence to women frequently occurred in every moment in everywhere and difference is only geographical area, date, time and entity.
Sisters and friends, you are not alone; don’t think you are criminal because of woman, don’t cry. Sadistic manner to women is the shame of men, failure of present consumerist civilization of the world. Come forward to be together we all to transform a better world man-woman both friendly.
We would let say goodbye to 2012 and welcome 2013 couple of hours later. A new sun will rise soon and illuminate the earth with genuine equity and humanity, true hope and happiness, real love and respect and love and love.
Comments
Let's hope get some help
Dear, your wishful article indicates how could the world be immensely better, by letting go old habits away. Wouldn'it be a wonder, if the passing of a year could change things? As life continues, hope must, too.
What you say rises an important point: hope needs some help. For old habit changes to occur an education effort should take place. A very large one, with massive resources allocated on a world basis. It should mostly be addressed to "men" - the real men and boys, and the image of men cultivated by many women.
A more women-friendly world is a massive advantage to both women (of course) and men. The latter passage may be less intuitive in people ingrained in privilege or domination. But men too have all to gain, in my feeling, and this gain is much more than the apparent losses.
Peace
Mauri
Shame of all humanity
Dear Monu,
Thank you for this powerful and heartfelt message. I so appreciate the participation of men in this forum and the reminder that most men do not commit or condone these horrendous acts. You raise many strong and valid points. Things as simple as language can influence our attitudes and beliefs from an early age. As children, little seeds are planted in our heads before we have the capacity to understand things like marriage and sexual relations and human rights. Our innocent minds can so easily be poisoned.
Unbeknownst to my husband and I, our oldest son had become racist by age 5 simply because we watched the nightly news in his presence. He had no other context for people from different races except for the stories and images that were planted in his head from the media. Fortunately, he verbalized those feelings and we had the opportunity to counter-act the damage that had been done and take a more proactive stand to remove the poison in his mind.
These sadistic crimes which you mentioned are crimes of humanity and against humanity. It is not only the shame of men - it is a shame for all of us. We all have the duty to reverse these trends. Women raise the sons who commit these crimes. Women have shunned or silenced their female friends who have been victimized. In some cases, women are the offenders or participate in the violence. How many women walked by the naked, beaten bodies of the gang-rape victims in Delhi? We must stop this apathy and develop a compassionate sense of duty to honor and respect each other - and these values should be instilled in children from birth.
Thank you for sharing your message.
Peace and blessings.
Kara-Amena