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VIOLENCE FROM CHILDHOOD TO ADULTHOOD=AN UNKIND TEACHER

I Lost my father before my second birthday, he was only 22 years old. MY SISTER WAS ONLY ONE YEAR OLD. WE WERE AFTER THAT EXPOSED TO A lot of violence, since our mother remarried a man who would beat her and terrify us. THIS WENTON FOR 8 YEARS, until thier divorce.M mother remarried again and it was the same. WE MOVED 3000 MILES FROM OUR FAMILY and this man had a gun.WHEN HE LOST HIS TEMPER HE THREATENED TO KILL MY MOM AND ME AND MY SISTER. My sister Carol and I were in bed and he had our mom on the floor with the gun and said I am going to kill you and then those 2 kids of yours. I froze my sister jumped out the bedroom window and ran to nieghbors for help. the police came and surrounded our house with spotlights and tlaked him down then took his gun and ;put him in jail for a week to cool off.

When I graduated from high school I got work and more education but had been conditioned to this treatment which is difficult to overcome. I HAVE wintessed crimes agianst others over the years and many are children, seniors and disabled. I have seen children abuse and treated with violence as recently as 2008 ongoing yet there seems to be no end or consequences.
i was fortunate that I also met many good people who showed me friendship and the good side of human nature and decency. I HAVE BEEN VICTIM OF VIOLENCE MANY TIMES OVER THE YEARS. MY EMPLOYERS WERE LIKE THIS. I worked for a company in CANADA that is guilty of tax evasion , human tafficking , slave labour and 10 counts under the criminal code, including kidnapping and unlawful confinement. THESE MEN are from the republic of congo, province of katanga and are leaders of islamic muslim society and owe me a great deal of money. I had paid a laywer for this case and now need one on contigency basis to continue.

VIOLENCE BECOMES THE NORM IF NOT DEALT WITH AND PENALTIES NEED TO B E IN PLACE. IT WOULD TAKE 6 MORE PAGES TO DESCRIBE THE HISTORY I HAVE EXPERIENCED.

This story was written for World Pulse’s Ending Violence Against Women Digital Action Campaign.

World Pulse believes that women's stories, recommendations, and collective rising leadership can—and will—bring an end to gender-based violence. The EVAW Campaign elicits powerful content from women on the ground, strengthens their confidence as vocal grassroots leaders, and ensures that influencers and powerful institutions hear their stories.
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Sharontina's picture

You are heard

You are heard dear.

I wish you come out of this and feel more positive about yourself. Reaching the pulsewire community was one such step. Keep sharing and let down the burden on your shoulders. That will make you light.

Love.

Merlin Sharontina

It's a shame that you have suffered so much violence over many years and witnessed the same done to your mother by two successive husbands, Diane. While neither you nor your sister may have ever been physically abused by either of your step fathers as children, the psychological and mental scars are as real as any visible ones. I applaud you for not being a bitter woman. Its amazing that you can still see the good in some human beings. Yes, not all people are evil or violent. Sadly, there are many who are indeed just that. It is especially unbelievable that your so-called employers can unilaterally decide not to pay you wages earned through hard toil . In a country like Canada, that is supposedly a free and democratic nation, it is a travesty of justice that your case is being handled the way it has been thus far. It is outrageous that you have had to relocate so far away for your own safety when you are the one who has been victimized! Really? So these men from the Republic of Congo, Province of Katanga and who are leaders of an Islamic muslim society are above the law? It appears to be so. Justice has to prevail and I hope it does for you in the final analysis. You deserve it and are indeed entitled to it.

BMBracewell

Diane Dillon's picture

GRATITUDE

THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR YOUR COMMENT AND VALIDATING ME AND MY RIGHTS AS WHEN I AM IN THE MIDDLE OF ALL THIS I FOREGT THEM AND WHO I REALLY AM. CORRUPTION HAS BEEN EXPOSED AS THESE MEN ARE WEALTH AND CONNECTED AND RCMP REFUSED TO DO ANYTHING. THESE MEN HAVE A HOUSE APPRAISED AT ABOUT 3 MILLION AT 2905 TOWER HILL CRESCENT IN VANCOUVER BC. MALIK TALIB AND RAHIM TALIB. I HAVE SIMPLY WINTESS EVENTS OVER TIME AND TRIED TO BE THE VOICE OF REASON. I HAVE BEEN THE VICTIM OF CHARACTER ASSASINATION, WNHICH IS VERY HARD. I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU. PO BOX 141 PORT HARDY BC CANANDA V0N 2P0 ddenlighten@hotmail.com
WHAT I NEED NOW IS LAWYER TO TAKE CASE OVER ON CONTINGENCY BASIS

ALSO THESE MEN ARE CONNECTED TO THE SHAH AGHA KHAN OF PAKISTAN

CoachMarcie's picture

Thanks

What a life you have had so far. I can't imagine being in your situation and having to deal with the courts. You're very strong so this has helped you get through the worst I hope. Good luck and stay strong.

Coach Marcie

Best,
Marcie

Diane Dillon's picture

gratitude for worldpulse

i want to thank all of you over the last few years for all the support and wisdom I have recieved. I am in a situation that I thought was true for everyone. I am learning that others have a different experience from mine and also that mine is understood from others perspective.
I am used to brutality and betrayl as it has been in my life since childhood. for me that was normal. the other side of this is that I knew some really good people who were so exceptional I also thought that people were like them, that is not true. so I have a hard time discerning things and people fool me a lot for that reason.
Right now I am in Victoria BC and the woman who runs houses all over this city where severe abuse and neglect etc is going on has attacked me repeatedly for reporting her and her cohorts. they are abusing the residents in these house. she manages 19 and makes a great deal of money millions. her borhters is a police officer and they are weralth and connected. breachs of privacy are common an d they feel they are above the law.She has done a real character assaination of me and this was very painful. these people are just being ware housed a cash cow is what it is.
Last year a city planners wife called me to let me know she needed my help her borhter was a vicitm of same place etc severe abuse mixed medications. her name is Kerrie Ward. I helped her and she thanked me but every time i help some on ethe woman who is guilty comer after me. she got health care workers fired from their job ofr reporting her and same for me

Kara-Amena's picture

Power to you!

Diane - I am amazed by your strength and courage. It's obvious that you are a fighter and a survivor. I know that comes at a cost and that your character has been attacked and many people are against you. I admire you for standing up and speaking out about the things you believe in. You are a kind and caring voice for the people you defend. Your empathy is a gift to them.

"Voices Rising", like the name of this platform, is exactly what you are doing. Please keep up your great efforts. The world needs more people like you.

Peace and blessings,

Kara-Amena

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