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DISCRIMINATION DE LA FEMME EN RDC

Dès la naissance dans la famille, le garçon occupe la 1ère place, la fille vient après malgré son âge.
A l’arrivée d’un garçonnet au monde la sage femme qui assiste la future mère lance deux cris de joie tandis que pour la fille elle fait un seul cri et cela annonce le sexe du nouveau né. La femme qui a accouché est récompensée selon le sexe du nouveau-né. Son mari sui offre une chèvre après la naissance d’un garçon, tandis que celle qui a eu une fille on va lui chercher les entrailles d’une chèvre au marché.
1. Lorsque le garçon atteint l’âge de la scolarisation, les parents l’inscrivent à l’école. La fille reste à la maison pour les travaux ménagers et garder les petits enfants pour aider sa mère aussi. Le garçon s’occupe des petits bétails et le reste de son temps il joue.
2. Après le décès de son père, la mère et ses filles n’ont pas droit aux biens laissés par le défunt. Les garçons se partagent l’héritage sous la supervision du fils ainé.
3. la fille qui a la chance d’aller à l’école ne bénéficie pas les mêmes avantages comme le garçon
4. La fille victime de la discrimination mais qui a la chance de franchir et terminer ses études universitaires rencontre des obstacles de la part des chefs.
SOLUTION
Que les pouvoirs publiques de la RDC veillent à l’élimination de toute forme de discrimination à l’égard de la femme et d’assurer la protection et la promotion de ses droits.
Que les pouvoirs publics prennent les mesures pour lutter contre toutes formes de violences faites à la femme dans la vie publique et dans la vie privée.
Suivre les bons exemples de certaines ONG qui privilègent les femmes lors d(offre d’emploi.
Merci beaucoup mes amies

English translation by PulseWire member ngalula

Discrimination of the Woman in DRC

At birth in the family, the boy takes the first place, the girl comes after despite his age.

Upon the arrival of a boy in the world the midwife who attends the mother launches two cheers for the girl while she cry and one that announces the sex of the newborn. The woman who gave birth is rewarded according to the sex of the newborn. Her husband has a goat after following the birth of a boy, while in the case of a daughter we will get him the entrails of a goat market.

1. When the boy reaches the age of schooling, parents enroll him into school. The girl stays at home with housework and keeps small children to help her mother. The boy takes care of small livestock and the rest of his time he plays.
2. After the death of his father, the mother and daughters have no right on the property left by the deceased. The boys share the inheritance under the supervision of the eldest son.
3. The girl who has the chance to go to school does not receive the same benefits as the boy
4. The girl is victim of discrimination but has the chance to go through and finish the university studies but encounter obstacles from the leaders.

SOLUTION

That the public authorities of the DRC shall ensure the elimination of all forms of discrimination against women and ensure the protection and promotion of their rights.
That government takes measures to fight against all forms of violence on women in public life and in private life.
Follow the good examples of some NGOs that give space to women during their work.

Thank you very much my friends

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At birth in the family, the boy takes the first place, the girl comes after despite his age.

Upon the arrival of a boy in the world the midwife who attends the mother launches two cheers for the girl while she cry and one that announces the sex of the newborn. The woman who gave birth is rewarded according to the sex of the newborn. Her husband has a goat after following the birth of a boy, while in the case of a daughter we will get him the entrails of a goat market.

1. When the boy reaches the age of schooling, parents enroll him into school. The girl stays at home with housework and keeps small children to help her mother. The boy takes care of small livestock and the rest of his time he plays.
2. After the death of his father, the mother and daughters have no right on the property left by the deceased. The boys share the inheritance under the supervision of the eldest son.
3. The girl who has the chance to go to school does not receive the same benefits as the boy
4. The girl is victim of discrimination but has the chance to go through and finish the university studies but encounter obstacles from the leaders.

SOLUTION

That the public authorities of the DRC shall ensure the elimination of all forms of discrimination against women and ensure the protection and promotion of their rights.
That government takes measures to fight against all forms of violence on women in public life and in private life.
Follow the good examples of some NGOs that give space to women during their work.

Thank you very much my friends

:: Beatrice Ngalula Kabutakapua
:: Foreign Correspondent || Researcher
:: Blog: www.balobeshayi.com
:: Skype: beka.trixie
:: Twitter: @Kabutakapua

Rakiba's picture

Good day!

Dear Sister,
Its a shame that many places around the world still follow this customs.It is a matter of regret that we are moving fast with our century, becoming modern but still reliving the backdated thoughts!
Soon,our time will arrive but for that the protest must go on..!
Keep writing!
Rakiba

cece's picture

Thank You For Your Sharing

Keep your hope as things will change it is just taking time. Continue to share you story so others can hear...the more we can spread the word the better our chances are.

Keep sharing

Love

Cece

We are blessed to have many Sisters!

Cece

Mila's picture

Thanks Prudence

Hi Prudence,

Thank you for writing and being a part of the WorldPulse community. I am sorry to hear about how girls are treated unequally. My heart is with you and the rest of the girls and women of the DRC. I really liked how you gave solutions to the problems. It would be great to hear in more detail what the government and NGOs could do to help. Please let us know how we can help too!

All the best to you,
Mila

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