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DISCRIMINATION DE LA FEMME EN RDC

DISCRIMINATION DE LA FEMME EN RDC
Dès la naissance dans la famille, le garçon occupe la 1ère place, la fille vient après malgré son âge.

A l’arrivée d’un garçonnet au monde la sage femme qui assiste la future mère lance deux cris de joie tandis que pour la fille elle fait un seul cri et cela annonce le sexe du nouveau né. La femme qui a accouché est récompensée selon le sexe du nouveau-né. Son mari sui offre une chèvre après la naissance d’un garçon, tandis que celle qui a eu une fille on va lui chercher les entrailles d’une chèvre au marché.
1. Lorsque le garçon atteint l’âge de la scolarisation, les parents l’inscrivent à l’école. La fille reste à la maison pour les travaux ménagers et garder les petits enfants pour aider sa mère aussi. Le garçon s’occupe des petits bétails et le reste de son temps il joue.
2. Après le décès de son père, la mère et ses filles n’ont pas droit aux biens laissés par le défunt. Les garçons se partagent l’héritage sous la supervision du fils ainé.
3. la fille qui a la chance d’aller à l’école ne bénéficie pas les mêmes avantages comme le garçon
4. La fille victime de la discrimination mais qui a la chance de franchir et terminer ses études universitaires rencontre des obstacles de la part des chefs.
SOLUTION
Que les pouvoirs publiques de la RDC veillent à l’élimination de toute forme de discrimination à l’égard de la femme et d’assurer la protection et la promotion de ses droits.
Que les pouvoirs publics prennent les mesures pour lutter contre toutes formes de violences faites à la femme dans la vie publique et dans la vie privée.
Suivre les bons exemples de certaines ONG qui privilègent les femmes lors d(offre d’emploi.
Merci beaucoup mes amies

English translation by PulseWire member Nita

DISCRIMINATION AGAINST WOMEN IN DRC

In the family, the boy takes the first place at birth and the girl comes after, irrespective of her age.
Upon the arrival of a little boy in the world, the midwife attending to the mother gives two joyful shouts whereas for the girl, she gives one shout and that announces the sex of the newborn.
The woman who gave birth is rewarded according to the newborn. Her husband offers her a goat after the birth of a boy while for a girl they will get her the intestines of a goat from the market.
1) When the boy reaches school age, the parents enroll him in school.
The girl stays at home taking care of younger children and helping the mother with housework.
The boy takes care of small livestock and the rest of his time he plays.
2) After the death of the father, the mother and her daughters have no rights to the property left by the deceased.
The boys share the inheritance under the supervision of the eldest son.
3) The girl who has the opportunity of going to school does not have the same advantages as the boy.

4) The girl; victim of discrimination but who was opportune to go through her university studies, still encounters obstacles from the officials

III. SOLUTIONS
The government should ensure the elimination of all forms of discrimination against women and to ensure the protection and promotion of their rights.
The government should take measures to fight against all forms of violence against women in public and in private life.
Follow the good example of some NGOs that prefer women in their job adverts.
Thank you very much my friends

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Comments

Nita's picture

4 cris pour les filles par les sages femmes

Bonjour Mme Namavo
Merci pour votre contribution.
La mentalité ci, doit changer parce que même les sages femmes étaient les filles.
Donc il faut les conseiller de lancer 4 cris de joie quand la fille est accouchée

NITA

namavu's picture

REMERCIEMENT

Maman NITA bonsoir
Merci pour les conseils. 4 cris l’osque la fille est accouchée et en plus informer les gents que ;ÉDUQUER UNE FEMME C'EST ÉDUQUER TOUTE UNE NATION ,Que la femme ne pas une vaux rien dans la vie
Je vous remercie

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Translation

DISCRIMINATION AGAINST WOMEN IN DRC

In the family, the boy takes the first place at birth and the girl comes after, irrespective of her age.
Upon the arrival of a little boy in the world, the midwife attending to the mother gives two joyful shouts whereas for the girl, she gives one shout and that announces the sex of the newborn.
The woman who gave birth is rewarded according to the newborn. Her husband offers her a goat after the birth of a boy while for a girl they will get her the intestines of a goat from the market.
1) When the boy reaches school age, the parents enroll him in school.
The girl stays at home taking care of younger children and helping the mother with housework.
The boy takes care of small livestock and the rest of his time he plays.
2) After the death of the father, the mother and her daughters have no rights to the property left by the deceased.
The boys share the inheritance under the supervision of the eldest son.
3) The girl who has the opportunity of going to school does not have the same advantages as the boy.

4) The girl; victim of discrimination but who was opportune to go through her university studies, still encounters obstacles from the officials

III. SOLUTIONS
The government should ensure the elimination of all forms of discrimination against women and to ensure the protection and promotion of their rights.
The government should take measures to fight against all forms of violence against women in public and in private life.
Follow the good example of some NGOs that prefer women in their job adverts.
Thank you very much my friends

NITA

jap21's picture

Hi Namavu

How can we, as women, stand this kind of dicrimination passively? There is no way. We must stand up for ourselves. But to be heard, we need to do it together. Raise your voices, use the media, create facebook groups and make them be COMMUNITIES.

These are the first steps to making your voices be heard more clearly.

Never stop writing, the world needs to know what you are going through.

Love,

Jackie

Jacqueline Patiño FundActiva
Tarija - Bolivia
South America
www.jap21.wordpress.com

irina_costa's picture

Cries of discontent

Bonjour Namavu,

What you are telling the world is very important. thank you for doing it! thank you also for thinking about possible solutions. how about we as women try to do something against the many predjudices we are faced with or against forms of violance. how about we report agressors to our families or to the police..it is a dangerous beginning but who knows maybe it is a small step in the right direction.

many warm thoughts

irina

Irina Costache

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