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One Billion Rising to Say No to Violence Against Women

The Gambian Voices amongst the One Billion Rising to
Say No to Violence Against Women

Most women and girls in Gambian society have been brought up to accept that being a woman is a weakness and femininity is for male pleasure. Women and girls are socialized to accept such myths and they are reinforced in the sayings amongst different ethnic languages. For instance in Mandinka, ‘Musuya mu nasoo leti’ meaning womanhood is about being vulnerable, lesser ability and limited capability and weakness. Some will force women to accept that womanhood is about suffering engraved in the social psyche that ‘musuya mu bataleti’ – ‘womanhood is about suffering’ has enforced the taboo of silence over sex, sexuality and reproductive health issues affecting women in particular.

On the contrary, male sexuality and reproductive concerns are discussed in the open without much of a stigma being sexually aggressive is considered a positive masculine trait. For instance, it is acceptable for a man to say “I have ‘keesanto’ - gonorrhoea and will not hesitate to express it even in everyday slang ‘I’ve been fired!’ Such is seen as a manifestation of machoism. If a man has multiple partners outside the realm of marriage it becomes an open and accepted secret yet the moralists will not condone the women in such relationships. Without justifying or judging people the basic argument is that female sexuality is always under the beam and control of the male psyche and lens.

The silence over girls being abused sexually in the home environment especially by ‘people of trust’ in the family circles continues to hunts many adults. They continue to be subjects of rape in and outside the marital home, sexual harassment in the workplace and are always accused of being the perpetrators, ‘looking for sex’.

Girls are vulnerable and are forced and coerced to have no say in what happens to their bodies from birth through their teenage life and even when they are adults in a relationship. They cannot decide not to be subjected to Female Genital Mutilation, forced into a marriage they do not give consent to, denied to inherit property and in most instances forced to be “inherited” in the case of the death of a husband. These are no longer accepted that is why GAMCOTRAP has joined organizations in Africa in the worldwide initiative to unite against violence against women. What makes the first Africa Summit held in August 2012 special is that African women, girls and men who care are joining the One Billion women and girls who have been subjected to different forms of abuse and sexual violence on the 14th February 2013 to subvert the silence over violence against women and girls throughout the world.

Women have used songs and dance to express their state of sorrow, despair and sadness. One Billion Rising says no to sadness, sorrow and despair, women, girls and men who have seen their mothers, sisters, daughters, niece suffer violence are going to demonstrate that they are survivors and stand against all forms of violence and abuse. They will demonstrate the power in their inner being to realize that in fact their abusers are weak, sick and pathetic that is why they hide behind the shield of a gun and other weapons such as abuse of power to be able to face women and girls from behind.

To kick start the One Billion Rising, the Africa Rising Summit held in Nairobi, Kenya concluded with a Declaration to bring to the attention of world leaders that as they contemplate on whether or not to take a decision, millions of African women and girls are no longer safe in their homes, on the streets, the road to the farm or rice field and on the way to school. In the backyard, older women are taking the opportunity to subject vulnerable baby girls to FGM because there is no law against the practice in the Gambia, the South African family is quietly condoning the sexual abuse and rape amongst the family members, the Congolese women and girls are used as weapons of war against the perceived enemy and many more atrocities against our citizens.

If you are a woman, girl or a man who cares to stop Violence Against Women, share your story, we are listening to why you are rising.

The Executive Director of GAMCOTRAP, Dr. Isatou Touray is rising because “I am Rising because many women are voiceless and have no platform to do so and on their behalf I am Rising to bring their agency to the public”

A divorcee is Rising because she has been divorced and the father of her children abandoned them. “All I want is for him to feed, clothe, educate and house his child; that is why I am Rising.”

“I am Rising because I was deceived when I was ten years old and told that I was privileged to be driven to Kombo; just to realized that I was going to be subjected to FGM and force to be silent over what happened to me for until the early 1990s when I found my voice to say no to FGM and all forms of Gender based violence, and I can’t stop speaking out against violence against women and girls.” Amie Bojang-Sissoho, Programme Coordinator- IEC, GAMCOTRAP.

“I am Rising because I have seen my father beat my mother and I do not want to be violent to my wife, the mother of my children” Male Activist.

“I am Rising because I am a Mutapola Voice and I do not condone friends and families who stigmatize our status as Positive Women.” A Woman Living Positively with HIV.

“I am Rising because I am denied the space to writing about Violence against Women and Girls in the local news” A journalist.

As an organization Rising against Violence Against Women, GAMCOTRAP will join the One Billion Rising to celebrate the power of women in saying No to FGM, Early Marriage and all forms of sexual violence with a musical Jamboree. We choose to dance because women have learned to change sorrow to joy as has been demonstrated over the years with the Dropping of the Knife Celebrations against Female Genital Mutilation. Now women and men are calling for a law to protect their daughters from the power of negative cultural practices and social coercion.
Eve Endsler has organized, mobilized, and supported the activists and feminists of Africa to rise against all forms of violence and V-Day is responding to this global energy that transcends any form of patriarchal resistance. Let the men who care join this campaign to end violence and impunity against women in the world.

The ICC Prosecutor Fatou Bensouda on International Day of the Child has this to say:

“Girls are among the most vulnerable members of society they should not be made to serve as sex slaves and soldiers. They should not be subjected to rape and sexual violence, nor made to witness brutal sexual attacks. In accordance with the Rome Statute of the International Criminal Court, I shall continue to include gender crimes and crimes against children in our charges and to bring the full cause of the law to bear on those most responsible for them.” (ICC Prosecutor on First International Day of the Girl, culled from FOROYAA, Monday 15 October, 2012)

Join the One Billion Rising against any form of violence on www.onebillionrising.org. Your voice is your power and critical to deal with impunity.

This story was written for World Pulse’s Ending Violence Against Women Digital Action Campaign.

World Pulse believes that women's stories, recommendations, and collective rising leadership can—and will—bring an end to gender-based violence. The EVAW Campaign elicits powerful content from women on the ground, strengthens their confidence as vocal grassroots leaders, and ensures that influencers and powerful institutions hear their stories.
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Mukut's picture

I feel it

Amiesissoho,

I am shocked to note that older women are subjecting younger girls to FGM, and taking advantage of the fact that there is no law against this in Gambia. Also you have mentioned about many disheartening problems plagued in your society, which the women face every day.

I hope through the initiative One Billion Rising and others, the conditions improve, and it will.

Thank you for sharing this post.

In solidarity,

Mukut Ray

amiesissoho's picture

My dear Mukut, Social

My dear Mukut,

Social pressure is very strong in dealing with traditional practices. However we are also using the very social structures to come to consensus to stop all forms of violence against women including Female Genital Mutilation. Thanks for your understanding. Thanks for you understanding. Please sign up.

Amie

Sharontina's picture

I am rising

This is for a great cause. We are here dear. Yes these inhuman acts like FGM should come to an end. We can do it - Say no to violence.

Hugs.

Merlin Sharontina

amiesissoho's picture

Yes together we shall rise to

Yes together we shall rise to end violence against women. Slowly communities are becoming aware and are dropping the knife to protect girls from FGM.

Many thanks

Amie

Kim Crane's picture

The power of your voice

Yes!! Amiesissoho Thank you for your persistence in exposing these important and interrelated areas of violence against women and for capturing the voices of your community who are rising to end the violence! "Your voice is your power" and you are bringing not only your voice but the voices of your community into the spotlight and inspiring voices from all over the world to join in this fight. THAT is powerful! I love this line, "We choose to dance because women have learned to change sorrow to joy as has been demonstrated over the years." I hope that if you capture any photos or video from this Jamboree event, you will share them on PulseWire. May we all celebrate with you the wonder of women turning sorrow into joy!

Peace and blessings,
Kim

amiesissoho's picture

Kim thanks for the

Kim thanks for the encouragement and understanding of our struggle. Singing and dancing are powerful ways of communicating in Africa.I will surely share as much information and photos as possible.

Cheers,

Amie

Wendyiscalm's picture

COUNT ME IN

Hi,

I have signed up for and committed to do my part for ONE BILLION RISING. I am devoting February 14, 2013 to your cause and proud to do this. Thanks for informing me so I could be a part of it and keep up the great work.

Ubuntu (I am who I am because of who we are together),

Wendy

Wendy Stebbins
Founder/CEO
I AM ONE IN A MILLION Non-Profit Organization focused on helping street orphans and vulnerable children in Livingstone, Zambia Africa.

amiesissoho's picture

Thanks for signing on Wendy,

Thanks for signing on Wendy, yes we are together and we shall rise up in unison on the 14th February 2013.

hugs,

Amie

Anniem's picture

SHARING SORROW AND JOY

I would like to propose that we not use the initials "FGM" but rather write and say the uglier sounding full description Female Genital Mutilation. Non-violent communication is direct and clear and delivers a message saying what we want, not just what we don't want. No more hiding our pain even when we learn and educate about what is happening to brutalize young women in Aftrica and elsewhere in the world. We need to be bold in this educational effort so the light shines on the truth so that this destructive practice and all violence against women and children comes more quickly to an end. Both men and women need to support women and children who are vulnerable.

Greetings of love and peace,
Anniem

amiesissoho's picture

Anniem dear you are right

Anniem dear you are right that we have to be brave in many ways. Thanks for understanding the way violence continues to be perpetuated. We are also working with men to stop the violence both at community and institutional levels.

Peace,

Amie

Anniem's picture

Inspiring to hear from You!

Mandinka, Wollof, Sarahuleh ! Wonderful just to hear the names of the languages you speak in Gambia. I got chills reading about your expertise and vision. Thank you for responding to my first post. Peace to you too, and many blessings in our work together at World Pulse and elsewhere.

Greengirl's picture

Great Work Amie

Illuminating and Impressive piece.

I will keep the date (14th February 2013) close to my heart!

Hugs,

Olanike

amiesissoho's picture

Thanks for taking note.

Thanks for taking note. Please sign up the keep the numbers visible.

Hugs too.

Amie

Dear Amiesissoho, thank you so much for this powerful information. I will take note of the date and will look for an event close to me. Stay blessed and continue with the struggle. God bless

Mrs. Anita Kiddu Muhanguzi
Head of Legal and Advocacy
Centre for Batwa Minorities
a.kiddu@gmail.com
cfmlegal@gmail.com
Skype: mrs_muhanguzi

amiesissoho's picture

Dear Anita, thanks for the

Dear Anita, thanks for the interest and stay connected

Cheers,

Amie

Heidi's picture

We are Rising

Dear Amie,
Thank you for sharing your voice here! Although there are endless amounts of inspiration to be found in the voices that make World Pulse, it is refreshing and truly motivating to read your piece offering a window to action, solutions and movement. The dance and observance sounds wonderful and I hope young girls began to see that being a woman is something to be proud of and to protect and that their voices are needed in their communities, families and countries. Thank you for the work that you do!
Heidi

amiesissoho's picture

Hi Heidi, it is motivating

Hi Heidi, it is motivating to know that there are people who care to make a difference and encouragement is one form of action. thanks to world pulse we are connected to give each other that support. We are also working with young people, just before the Muslim feast of Eid we reached out to 150 young people male and female from remote areas on FGM and other rights issues in fight against violence.

Amie

Heidi's picture

Rising!

I've signed up for a local event in February. Thank you for sharing the info!
Heidi

amiesissoho's picture

Thanks for Rising!

Thanks for Rising!

Amie

Sheil's picture

I signed up

Hello Amie,

OK! I signed up for my local One Billion and Rising event! Thank you for bringing this to our attention. Keep rising!

Sheila

Sheila

amiesissoho's picture

Thanks Sheila, together we

Thanks Sheila, together we shall rise above the violence.

Amie

Nabiye-tal's picture

Thanks

Thanks alot for this information. I've taken note. I shall look for one near to me or in my neighbourhood but if there's none then i can start one. I'm d founder- Initiative for the Elimination of Violence Against Women and Children. IEVAWC. Abuja- Nigeria.

Nabiye Tal
CEO- IEVAWC
+2348162536058
bjohntal@yahoo.co.uk
skype- nabee-tal

Wendyiscalm's picture

This is deplorable.

This is deplorable (actually the word deplorable doesn't begin to touch the feelings I have for these actions) and even worse is that I do not know what I can do to help.

Thank you for bringing this to my attention. Perhaps I can write some letters.

What can we do?

Ubuntu,

Wendy

Wendy Stebbins
Founder/CEO
I AM ONE IN A MILLION Non-Profit Organization focused on helping street orphans and vulnerable children in Livingstone, Zambia Africa.

Wendyiscalm's picture

Also

Also, you are right when on your profile you say your voice is your freedom . . . and your power.

Keep it up, You are necessary. You matter.

Ubuntu,

Wendy

Wendy Stebbins
Founder/CEO
I AM ONE IN A MILLION Non-Profit Organization focused on helping street orphans and vulnerable children in Livingstone, Zambia Africa.

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