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LES RISQUES DE LA GROSSESSE PRECOCE CHEF UNE JEUNE FILLE

Chez nous en RDC de l’âge allant de 12 à 18 ans, chez une fille il y a beaucoup de changement entre autre, du corps et de mentalité. Cependant elle aime remettre en question l’ordre et l’autorité établis; méfiance des adultes, aime se conformer aux règles de son groupe (clubs, staff…) dans ce stade elle s’en ivre de boisson alcoolisées, aime beaucoup faire l’amour, faire la première relation sexuelle, elle s’arrange à pratiquer des expériences ramasser par-ci – par là sans se rendre compte qu’il aura une conséquence après, ou des risque qui en découleront.
Pendant qu’elle s’embrouille dans son aventure, voici la grossesse qui se présente.
En effet, la grossesse est un sujet de joie lorsqu’elle est désirée et attendue dans le cadre du mariage, par contre elle est source de problèmes, de soucis et de conflits lorsqu’elle est précoce et non désirée, en dehors du mariage, c’est le cas de la plupart de nos filles en RDC de moins de 18 ans.
Quand les garçons leurs trompent qu’elles ne peuvent pas tomber enceinte lors de son premier rapport, pendant qu’un seul rapport sexuel suffit pour avoir une grossesse dans le cas où la jeune fille a déjà eu ses premiers règles ou sur le point de les avoirs. Une fois tombée enceinte, elle commence à regretter, elle ne sait pas s’introduire devant ses parents, elle commence à maigrir à cause de la soucie, et quand les parents sont maintenant au courant et vu son hypocrisie et son arrogance manifesté devant ses parents avant, elle est chassé de la maison, elle ne sait plus où aller, ni quoi faire. Le propriétaire de la grossesse aussi la refuse, en traversant tous cela, elle pratique l’infanticide, car la vie lui devienne maintenant noire à cause des conseils des adultes qu’elle refusait.
Les risques qui en découlent sont :
1. Avortement provoqué.
2. Mettre au monde un enfant prématuré
3. Bébé de faible poids à la naissance.
4. Abandon des études.
5. Abandons du bébé dans les toilettes, poubelle, endroits public, ce qui est un délit punit par la loi.
Nos filles qui sont entrain de grandir, ont beaucoup de lacunes et ignorances à enlever dans leurs têtes.
Votre soutien via les centres de formation s’avère indispensable.
Merci.

English translation by community member AnnieTheriault

The Risks of Adolescent Pregnancy

Here, in DRC, girls aged 12 to 18 go through many changes, bodily and psychological. However, they like to challenge authority and the established order of things: they are distrustful of adults and like to conform only to the rules of their group (club, staff, etc.). At this stage, the young girl drinks or gets drunk, likes to have sex, and has her first sexual relationship. She experiences many different things and does so without fully realizing that her actions will have consequences or ensuing risks.

And while she gets mixed up in her adventure, a pregnancy results.

Pregnancy is joyful when it is desired and when it happens in wedlock. However, it becomes problematic and a source of conflict when it happens out of wedlock and when it is not desired. This is what happens in the DRC to most girls of less than 18 years.

Boys will tell them that they can’t get pregnant during their first sexual relationship, but a single time is enough for pregnancy to occur once a girl has had her first period (or is about to). When she is pregnant, she starts to regret it, she doesn’t know what to tell her parents and she starts to lose weight because of the anxiety. Then when her parents find out, considering her past hypocrisy and arrogance, she is chased away from home. She doesn’t know where to go or what to do. The child’s father doesn’t want anything to do with her and, because of all of this, she commits infanticide. Her life is like a black hole because she refused to listen to the adults’ advice.

The risks are:
- Provoked abortion
- Giving birth prematurely
- Child born at low weight
- Dropping out of school
- Abandoning the baby in a bathroom, trashcan, or in a public place. This is a crime.

Our girls are growing up and we have to remove much ignorance from their minds. The support you grant our training centers is fundamental.
Thank-you.

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Comments

milsgra's picture

Sujet Très important

Merci d'avoir entamer un sujet si délicat et important. D'après vous quels sont les moyens de remplir les lacunes qui existent au niveau de l'education et des droits de la femme et des enfants qui pourront aider les jeunes filles a se préoccupées d'autres aspects de la vie avant de penser a la sexualité? En d'autre terme: quel est le rôle des parents, de la communauté, du gouvernement vis à vis de ces jeunes filles?

Anuarite's picture

Pour combattre ces genre de

Pour combattre ces genre de situation; il serai mieux que ces filles aient une occupation pouvant leurs aider à ne plus penser à la sexuallité, car une fois que le gouvernement congolais crée des emplois pour ces filles, elles seront occupées de toute le façon et elles ne penseraient plus à ça. Pour ce qui concerne les parents, il y a de ces parents qui suite à la pauvreté, envoient leurs filles faire la prostitutions pour qu'elles amenent quelques choses à manger à la maison. et il ya d'autres qui parlent jusqu'à leurs fin mais cettes dernières ne les écoutent pas. La communauté pouvait de meler dans cette situation, mais vu la vie que menent certains, eux aussi construise de maison de soulagement pour exploiter celle-ci. alors on se dit que si une fois le gouvernement prennait en rigueur la lois et que la justice soit faite convenablement, il y aurrai diminution de ceci dans notre pays.
Merci beaucoup!
Anuarite

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AnnieTheriault's picture

The Risks of Adolescent

The Risks of Adolescent Pregnancy

Here, in DRC, girls aged 12 to 18 go through many changes, bodily and psychological. However, they like to challenge authority and the established order of things: they are distrustful of adults and like to conform only to the rules of their group (club, staff, etc.). At this stage, the young girl drinks or gets drunk, likes to have sex, and has her first sexual relationship. She experiences many different things and does so without fully realizing that her actions will have consequences or ensuing risks.

And while she gets mixed up in her adventure, a pregnancy results.

Pregnancy is joyful when it is desired and when it happens in wedlock. However, it becomes problematic and a source of conflict when it happens out of wedlock and when it is not desired. This is what happens in the DRC to most girls of less than 18 years.

Boys will tell them that they can’t get pregnant during their first sexual relationship, but a single time is enough for pregnancy to occur once a girl has had her first period (or is about to). When she is pregnant, she starts to regret it, she doesn’t know what to tell her parents and she starts to lose weight because of the anxiety. Then when her parents find out, considering her past hypocrisy and arrogance, she is chased away from home. She doesn’t know where to go or what to do. The child’s father doesn’t want anything to do with her and, because of all of this, she commits infanticide. Her life is like a black hole because she refused to listen to the adults’ advice.

The risks are:
- Provoked abortion
- Giving birth prematurely
- Child born at low weight
- Dropping out of school
- Abandoning the baby in a bathroom, trashcan, or in a public place. This is a crime.

Our girls are growing up and we have to remove much ignorance from their minds. The support you grant our training centers is fundamental.
Thank-you.

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