une mauvaise souvenir ,
by anuciata | September 11, 2012 at 7:49 AM | English translation available
Chez nous il ya une maman qui était marie mais son marie avait vendu sa maison et laissé sa femme seule sans lui donnée quelque chose pour qu'elle s'occupent des ces enfants même sans divorce;ces enfants en soufrant avec la grocesse de leur maman en rue sans soutenance de personne allord sa grande soeur eu la pitieu de sa petite soeur elle avait prie en charge sa petite soeur et ces enfants pendant 7 ans sans même son mari jettez un cout de main ou de yeux meme payer les frais de scolarisation et a manger pour sa famille;ce sa grande soeur avec sa vie miserable du taux du jour qui sa n'auquipe seul:mais malheuresement son mari c'est marie pour la deuxième fois san connaitre le dtroit de sa femme et ces enfants:voila la femme abandonnée elle est allez au tribunal pour le jugement de leur separation de cette violence de droit de ce femme et ces enfants ,mais malheuresement pas des suite reserver pour cette maman voila! la justice d'aujourdhuit au RD congo merci .
English translation by PulseWire member Nita
A Bad Souvenir
Back here at home, there is a mother who was married but her husband sold his house leaving the woman alone with nothing to take care of the children. These children suffered on the street with their mother’s pregnancy without support from anywhere. Her senior sister pitied the junior sister taking care of her and her children for seven years without the husband giving a helping hand, not even in paying of the fees or giving food to his family.
It was her elder sister with her miserable life of everyday, who took care single handedly. But unfortunately, her husband got married for the second time without knowing the rights of his wife and the children. The abandoned woman went to court for the judgment of their separation and of this abuse of this woman’s rights and that of the children, unfortunately, no answer for this woman. That is today’s justice in DR of Congo. Thanks.
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Comments
Elle etait epouse ou concubine?
Bonjour Maman Anuciata
Merci pour votre contribution.
Je voudrai savoir si notre sœur qui était abandonne par son mari avait l'acte de naissance avec ce monsieur ou elle a seulement fait les enfants avec lui.
Merci de me répondre
NITA
Translation
A Bad Souvenir
Back here at home, there is a mother who was married but her husband sold his house leaving the woman alone with nothing to take care of the children. These children suffered on the street with their mother’s pregnancy without support from anywhere. Her senior sister pitied the junior sister taking care of her and her children for seven years without the husband giving a helping hand, not even in paying of the fees or giving food to his family.
It was her elder sister with her miserable life of everyday, who took care single handedly. But unfortunately, her husband got married for the second time without knowing the rights of his wife and the children. The abandoned woman went to court for the judgment of their separation and of this abuse of this woman’s rights and that of the children, unfortunately, no answer for this woman. That is today’s justice in DR of Congo. Thanks.
NITA
Abandoned
This an unfortunate story. I sympathize with this woman and others like her. This is the reason we need to empower women. This can be done through educating women with skills that enable them to take care of their family.
Kadeen Dennie
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Keep Your Hope Going
What is wrong with these guys! Thank you for telling me your story. Hopefully spreading the word about this will lead to education for the women in Congo so that they can learn to take care of themselves and not be dependent on their husbands. I know they will have to take baby steps to start learning how to take care of themselves, just know there is lots of women out there who are praying for them to succeed.
Love
Cece
We are blessed to have many Sisters!
Cece
Dear Nita
What a difficult situation. I feel so strongly for the women and children involved. It is maddening that the women and her children are not protected and supported in these circumstances, nor given the hope to support themselves. It is humbling reading about the struggles of women in the DRC. Thank you for sharing and bringing this story to us.
A heart-felt thank you,
Hannah
Dear anuciata, This is a very
Dear anuciata,
This is a very disheartening story. Thank you for sharing what is happening. I send my best wishes that the family can find justice and adequate support to move forward from this awful situation. Please send any updates you have if you hear anything further.
Katie