Violence continuelle à l'Est de la RD Congo
by mumbalima | September 5, 2012 at 9:01 AM | English translation available
Je me demande souvent quand est ce que la violence des femmes terminera surtout à l'Est de la RD Congo.
Une amie s'est mariée avec un veuf qui avait 5 enfants, chose grave il savait qu'il a la maladie de VIH/SIDA0 Le deux ont signés que celle la mort le sépareront: la femme ne savait pas que le mari avait cette maladie là.
Un jour après avoir met au monde 2 enfants un de la famille de son mari l'a signalé que son mari a le VIH/SIDA, Dieu merci quand on a fait le test du SIDA. La femme était saint et sauf, alors on leur a dit chez le médecin de se proteger le Condom, or le mari disait qu'il veut avoir encore un ou deux enfants, la femme refusait mais l'homme faisait la malignité de trouer à peut près 20 condom ce qui fait étonné il voulait coute que coute que la femme soit atteint de VIH/SIDA, or il ne faisait rien comme travail pour vivre car il était malade; c'est la femme qui faisait tout elle transportai les riz le manioc pour avoir quoi manger vraiment ça c'est une violence de haute qualité.
Merci beaucoup mes amies
English translation by PulseWire member Nita
Ongoing Violence In Eastern DR of Congo
I often ask myself that when will the violence against women end especially in eastern DR Congo?
A friend got married to a widower who had five children. `Something terrible; he knew he had VIH/SIDA sickness. They both signed that only death would separate them: the woman did not know that the husband had this disease.
One day, after giving birth to two children somebody from the husband’s family told her that her husband had HIV / AIDS. Thank God when AIDS test was conducted, the woman was healthy and safe and the doctor told them to use condoms but the husband said he wants to have one or two children more. The woman was refusing but being wicked he tore about 20 condoms meaning that he wanted that the woman be HIV infected at all cost. Whereas he was doing nothing to earn a living since he was sick. It was the woman who was doing everything; she carried rice, cassava in order to have something to eat. Sincerely, this is first class abuse.
Thanks my friends
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Faisons attentions a notre propre santé
Bonjour Mme Mumbalima
Merci vraiment pour votre article.
A nos jour, personne n'ose pas se mettre avec une autre au nom du mariage SANS D'ABORD FAIT UN BILAN DE SANTE. Peut être a cause d'amour, notre sœur se laissé emporté mais c'est un risque a ne pas prendre.
Il faut chercher a savoir si l'autre partie est a l'abri du HIV et hépatite. Il faut même faire l'examen d’électrophorèse pour pouvoir éviter les problèmes qui auront les conséquences sur le mariage et a la longue, sur les enfants et enfin sur la société en gosso mondo.
Elle a trouvé la grâce qu'elle n'a pas eu le VIH mais c’était juste une grâce qui n'est pas banale.
Faisons donc attention a notre propre sante puisque la vie n'a pas de duplicata.
Avec la sagesse
NITA
Translation
Ongoing Violence In Eastern DR of Congo
I often ask myself that when will the violence against women end especially in eastern DR Congo?
A friend got married to a widower who had five children. `Something terrible; he knew he had VIH/SIDA sickness. They both signed that only death would separate them: the woman did not know that the husband had this disease.
One day, after giving birth to two children somebody from the husband’s family told her that her husband had HIV / AIDS. Thank God when AIDS test was conducted, the woman was healthy and safe and the doctor told them to use condoms but the husband said he wants to have one or two children more. The woman was refusing but being wicked he tore about 20 condoms meaning that he wanted that the woman be HIV infected at all cost. Whereas he was doing nothing to earn a living since he was sick. It was the woman who was doing everything; she carried rice, cassava in order to have something to eat. Sincerely, this is first class abuse.
Thanks my friends
NITA
Thank You for Sharing on World Pulse
I am so sorry to hear this. I understand that the situation in the DRC is getting worse and violence against women is increasing. I hope that you are safe.
Amy
Thank you!
Dear Mumbalima,
What a horrible story. I can hardly find words for how sorry I am for your friend and for the many other women who have to experience similarly aweful things. It is good to have brave women like you, who share these stories with us here in World Pulse, because we need to hear the truth and the realities on the ground. As Amy wrote, I hope you and your family are safe.
My thoughts are with you!
Katharina