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KENYA: Losing a Life to Give a Life

As a nurse, Okeny-Lucia has insider knowledge on the state of maternal health in her homeland. She has dedicated her life to rallying for increased access to health care for pregnant women and their children.

"No woman should die while giving life."

"I believe that governments must treat maternal health as they do readying a defense force for war or a nuclear launch."

Any woman who has been pregnant knows too well that those nine months are trying: Things you once loved to do or thing you once loved to eat are suddenly forbidden. Your life is suddenly a roller coaster, and everything can feel like it is changing, chameleon-like.

In my country of Kenya, a pregnant woman and her womb have great respect placed upon them. In public places, men and women spring from their seats to allow a pregnant woman to rest. ‘Mama, Keti hapa,” they say. “Have a seat, Mum!”

Growing up, I was fascinated with pregnant bellies and thought pregnancy was sacred. In my childish mind I wondered how these women felt: Was this Baby Jesus (that’s how adults described the unborn to me) heavy? Did he cry for milk? And as a woman’s tummy grew—what a wonder!

Now, it is clear to me that women face great challenges to give birth. In my community, the care, concern, and respect a woman experiences during pregnancy does not exist when it comes to labor and delivery.

There I was, some years ago, serving as Nurse Supervisor in a labor ward of a public hospital. With a capacity of 200 beds, we had plenty of patients and adequate equipment to save a mother and her baby. But being a public hospital, the number of patients would sometimes surpass capacity.

It was a busy night that promised only to get busier. As I hung up one phone, another would ring.

“I need an anesthetist fast, sister!”
“Matron, there is a child in respiratory distress!”
“We need an ambulance!”

Toward 11pm my energy was draining and pressure was mounting. A mother had been referred from another a city. She presented with complications of reduced fetal activity and breech presentation and required an emergency caesarean section. I called for the doctor to immediately attend to this woman, as it was important that we move hastily.

Moments later, the mother-to-be was in acute labor pains, kicking her hands high up and screaming. “God! Oh Lord!” she wailed. “Save me, save my baby!”

There were only two midwives on duty. There were seven women in early labor, three in active labor, and one waiting in the operating theater for the very doctor we needed. It was utter chaos. My patient was losing strength, and we could only wait and watch her torment.

I summoned the courage to examine her and found the infant’s foot confirming that she was breeching. I’d have to go skillfully around the foot to loosen it with an incoming contraction. I was able to draw the legs out and to free the forehead of the baby out of the birth canal. The hardest part of the delivery was over and we breathed sighs of relief.

Yet, the baby never cried! I felt butterflies in my stomach, and a thin streak of sweat on my forehead confirmed my worst fears. The mother raised her head. With a weak voice and tears flowing from her eyes she asked, “Is my baby dead?”

I couldn’t answer. The doctor had arrived and was attempting to resuscitate the newborn, but it was futile. The baby was lost.

And all this due to delayed access to the facility.

A second death that night dealt a hard blow. A fellow nurse lost consciousness following a delivery that was too much for her to handle. She was taken to the intensive care unit, but never woke up from the deep sleep. It was the last time I saw my colleague, a nurse and a diligent young mother with many dreams for her life. In this case, our healthcare system had provided life for one newborn but brought death for another mother. . . .


ikirimat's picture

Advocacy for better conditions

Thanks for this striking situation of mothers that prevails daily in our communities. I have gone through such a condition which ended in the loss of my baby. I hope that one day, no mother , no child will die during birth.
Let's continue doing advocacy with governments, communities, leaders, men and women to address the challenges faced.

Thank you for the highlighting the issues of our women again.

Grace Ikirimat

"It takes the hammer of persistence to drive the nail of success."

Okeny-Lucia's picture

Women will overcome!

Thank you Ikirimat!

I do understand our situation of maternal health is similar.I do hope the more we agitate for a better conditions many people will demand for the rights for highest attainable standard of health.
Let us keep on with the spirit.

Thank you for being a pillar of hope.


Lucia Buyanza
Reproductive Health

This is too important to leave to governments alone. Please join 34 Million Friends of the United Nations Population Fund and/or donate to UNFPA directly. Gender inequality is the moral challenge of the age. Quite frankly with the world's present power structure, if men could get pregnant there would be no "paternal mortality", no fistulas, no lack of access to family planning and safe abortion. Reproductive health would be at the top of the world's agenda!

Okeny-Lucia's picture

You are on spot!

Thank you dearest friends.I join in the campaign to bring this inhumanity to an end.

I believe we are coming to an end of letting politicians dictate to what we are entitled in health.

This is truly a noble cause.


Lucia Buyanza
Reproductive Health

Dear Lucia,
I love what you said, "I believe that governments must treat maternal health as they do readying a defense force for war or a nuclear launch." And I whole-heartedly agree! My hope is that one day governments will have peace rooms with their war rooms, and health rooms to track what is working in maternal health. My hope is that one day all women will have the resources to achieve an empowered birth.

Thank you for your story and your work.
Many blessings,

Okeny-Lucia's picture

Wow Maternal Health Rooms!

Dear Carrie,
I am greatful that you got the time to reply to my article.Maternal Health rooms is a must.We will not bow down.Every woman,every child counts and this mission we hope reaches to all governements.
Currently in my workplace we are doing small initiatives to assist midwives get capacity building in reaching out to women,and we hope small steps will count.
Thank you once again.
Many blessings too!

Lucia Buyanza
Reproductive Health

Precious M's picture

Babies Need their Moms!

Dear Lucia,

Your article points to a very important issue. Adequate health care for mothers-to-be is not an issue to be ignored.

Kind Regards,

My pen speaks

tonettekelly's picture

Maternal Health Care

This was an important article.
If governments cannot provide adequate facilities it would be good if they could at least provide adequate training to a sufficient number of villagers so that they know what to do in challenging situations.

The western world should make this a priority.


Tonette Kelly

Wendyiscalm's picture


What you are doing is amazing. I am priniting your article out. When I go to Livingstone Zambia the end of August-September I will read it to some of the women who speak English. While the female situation is horrible in most of Livingstone, this article you wrote plants a seed. They are too scared of the ramifications of change but it will start a dialogue. So, I want you to know, as surely you already do, that you make a difference. Thank you so much

Wendy Stebbins

Wendy Stebbins
I AM ONE IN A MILLION Non-Profit Organization focused on helping street orphans and vulnerable children in Livingstone, Zambia Africa.

Okeny-Lucia, let me express my deep respect and admiration for the work you do and goals you are achieving in your everyday life! For your struggle and hard work!it won't come back to you in monetary value but, for sure, God sees everybody and everything!
Every case like that is not just "one" of problems of such countries or a number in their statistics report, it is tragedy, suffering and emotional trauma, tears and sleepless nights for that person who has to learn to live with that all her life!while governments spend money for accumulating the weapons of massive destruction or putting money into their pockets!!!!
Every society needs people like you!!!!

Jacky Kowa's picture

County Government in kenya

So sad! That this continues to happen in every single deep rural areas of Kenya, every minute! We tag them unreached, underserved or just poor populations. In some of these places, even NGO's are scared of putting up a facility because of the distance, mobile clinics works but are not consistent.

Madam Lucia, your story made me think how crucial our county government focus, might actually work. County problems will be listened to and dealt with at the county level. A boost to the county developments in Kenya. I support and believe in this.

I pray for my mama land.

Kindest Regards,

Communication for behaviour change


olivia hosea mchome's picture

Thank you

I dont have a child yetb but you have opend my eyes..towards prayers for all those in labor ward.

You doing a wonderfull job.

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