My silence...

We can choose our battle. The only wrong decision is that we make against our convictions and feelings. Warms Regards

Hello Tanvir

Silence is golden, as,goes the old saying. You also have reason for remaining silent. The next logical step then, would be to shrug off the accusations and keep your faith unshaken.

Best!

Silence sometimes resonates louder and longer than words. It can be a powerful weapon.

Dear Tanvir, as other sisters said ,, silent is really powerful weapon, and silent also may suffer ownself. you keep your self-trust strong. If you are not in wrong ,, and peple blame you than stop to be silent it killes you dear.

stay blessed,, raise your voice start form here WorldPulse comunity.
we hear your silence.

An adage in my community (Igbo)says whoever keeps silent contents.an an English adage says Silence is the best answer to a fool.So it depends on where and what you are keeping silent for. But why keep silent .Why dont make some noise even in argument so that people will no that you are there.Please stop keeping silent,voice out your own view it might be useful.

Hello Tanvir,
Silence is golden ,speech is silver.Much said and done.Silence carries alot of deep thoughts and great speech.And thats why Yoga is the in thing now.Silence helps to reconnect to reality.In silence you see your failures and strength,so that should you choose to speak it will be well put.
I have practised silence when all is boiling and it has assisted me for many years to tame my anger and to avoid regrets in saying why did I have to shout or answer that.
Tanvir you are a strong person,let silence take you to the next level of reflection and critical thinking of your deeds towards other people.
Goodevening.

Tanvir, from my experience keeping silence is the strongest weapon. When you say something someone can use it against you. But when you not say nothing you control the situation. The attempts to take you with "don't be weak" or "are you trying to escape" is just a provocation. I know these tricks, just when you begin to speak you loose control. At least for me works often in this way. Then in the situations when I know for sure I don't have enough of words to win I keep silence. Take my pause and only when I feel strong enough I begin to speak. While I am not - just enjoying my dance in silence and the reaction of others ;) Keep on dancing, Tanvir, sometimes is the best tactics :)

Tanvir: My view is to simply BE who you are...always. Moreso--and firstly--KNOW WHO YOU ARE...always. That's where we can speak and act from with our highest confidence and courage. As has been said, "...there's a time and place for everything." There are times to be silent and there are times when we must speak out; sometimes nicely, other times......... Different situations call for different responses; sometimes, no response. Whatever the case, the challenge is to stay centered in Self, doing all we can not to hurt others and all we can not be be hurt by others. For me, staying centered in challenging situations demands detachment; not uncaring or indifferent, rather active instead of reactive (in silence even). Overall, silence is, indeed, a most powerful tool; ideally for getting into a space where all exists and from which we may draw true wisdom. To make a long story short, Tanvir: just love yourself... ALWAYS.

Hi
As women, more often than not we are judged based on the vaious societal stereotypes.
As women we are considered weak etc and ultimately when we decide to leave arguments and keep the peace, we are seen as the weak ones. One thing very peolple know, is the power of knowledge.

In this case, you know why you are not running with the argument.
Choose to smile secretly at the knowledge that you are not weak as people suppose.
Rather you are strong, in recognising the need to keep peace.

Gertrude

Yes, only you know what is best for you. Take care dear.