This is a True Life Story the pain from a young lady in my community...
I am presently working back home in Liberia, I had worked for 2months, I walk this day and meet this lady a little over 36 years, the sun up so her smiles looks a bit unperdictable, Hi... Are you Frederica, asked the lady, Yes, ... I am why did you ask, nothing... Want to tatk to you, This how the story, started, I got a degree in management, I got 2 lovely kids, a boy and a girl, Married but is working on steping out, presently I am doing my master, That is good, On the issue with her intrducation, wether certain principles about her story are the many stories women all over the world face day to day, with out no help,
I come from a very large family off 10, but been an African me and my many aunties uncles, etc... just to name My tolerance level for all is high, She goes on to say I speak for myself and I also stand for myself,down this road my dear, if I may ask you how old are you? The lady asked me, wellllll does it really mater, ok just about your age, good she said...
On this road my dear I walk I have realized that, my mum, dad,aunties,uncles,brothers,sisters and the rest want to get on board my life for me, Not thinking about my commom values, All are blind toward that,
I woke up one morning crying just for the reality of life to hit me so hard, I needed to slam the 'D' door by letting go, my inner disciplines in me ,Patience for me was a challenge. I have spend sleepless night crying looking for change in life,,
In my quest for that I meet a man on the bus who was willing to help, I strongly felt that, He is Hen, however down the road he stared calling me names, eg like you ugly, you scared you too old etc,, I became resentful, for my quest to help me up so I deecied to do it on my own, I knew I wasn,t a perfact person but my been labour, down to earth and not konwing how to say NO to people where some of my many weekness, always want to help so much so to the point off taking my last to put smile on someone face.
Few friends respected her for that others lable me as miss do good others call me names, The lady is call Kola this heart breaking story.
Telling someone not to be emotional is telling the person not to be human, Kola cried, she goes on most women are victins, confrontations change is not at all times enemy, It could be God's way of saying enough is enough my life had been a torment,
I bring you part 2 off kola my new find friend, I also ask as you all read kindly help Kola up for a better life.In my mind she didn,t look like any lady with a low self esteem, she goes on my dear all I need to do now is to sept up my game and be in the driver seat, Kola you are at the end of the tunnel today I have decieded to get my life back,I had been concern about my kids, I knew I was a asset and not a liability,.Kola looks so much with confident,She say's if I should die today my smiles will rain,peace and for my kids,let this world be a bettter place for all, for those who wanted to run my life and live it for me I SAY WELL DONE!