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In The Name of God!

How I wish I had known Pulsewire before now and I will not have agreed with anyone that we are living in a wicked world. When I though the load on my head would break my neck, I sought for solace in a so called house of God but I came out the worst for what I did, I became an ATM card for a so called man of God, a victim of a pastor in my country who duped me of all my properties.

We were trained that the only peace can be found in any house of God and I entrusted all I have in his care, and knowing full well of all my story which I have earlier told, when my husband rejected me and left for another woman, and rejection by my people, out of frustration, I decided to remain with God and began to live in church going from one christian gathering to another praying hard if I would have a child and live a "normal life" there I met a pastor for counseling who now promised to assist me in prayer.

I followed him blindly just as religion has been used to chain many women today, another way of keeping women down, he was a fake pastor he managed to brain-wash me and that led to my surrendering all my belongings to him what i have laboured for in life including money, stock and my house.

The case was reported to the police, he got arrested and promised to pay back, to my surprise he was released after he had settled the police and the police told me that if i love myself and still need my life i should let go the case and forget about it.or i die, with the fear of not wanting to die yet I had to let the case died. this is the world of someone who has no body to assist or help, a life of loneliness, as i was made handicapped no where to run to except to God and i am believing God for miracles and breakthroughs.

Today, I find it hard to believe people until I met some new people who believe in life and not luxury, who believe in a just and fair world for all and I continue to pray that I have the opportunity to share more, know more and learn more. We should know that men will always capitalize on our being gullible to make us miserable.

Hugh, at last I find a platform to unburden my mind.


Leelee's picture

Your post brought tears to my

Your post brought tears to my eyes especially at the end where you say that because of this platform "you have met people who believe in life not luxury" - thank you so much for this. And I agree with you. There are "bad" people and "evil" situations, but I am more encouraged to surround myself with the positivity and newness of "good"!

'Harlem: A Dream Deferred' - Langston Hughes
What happens to a dream deferred?
Does it dry up
like a raisin in the sun
Or fester like a sore—
And then run?
Does it stink like rotten meat?
Or crust and sugar over—
Like a syrupy sweet?

Olufunke's picture

I am grateful sister

I am so much happy with your comment, not the tear alone but knowing that some women are now with me in this moment in my life.

olutosin's picture

Men will be Men! Let God be God.

I was ashamed of man humanity to man when I saw the newspaper clip of how a man of God swindle you and stole all you labored for in life and this he did in collaboration with his wife too. Now he lives in luXury while you sleep from place to place. Hmmmn, let God be God in tour life today, I believe that God has a purpose for bringing us all together in this platform. Forget the past though continue to share your stories so that you will feel lightened and some women will learn too. God will judge that dead Pastor, he loves living in luxury while you weep daily thinking that the end has come. HE WILL REAP what he sowed. Pls attend Nigerian cafe meeting on October thirty, meet our kindhearyed Nigerian bros and sisters for cunseling and inspiring testimonies. Remain Blessed and inspite of everthing I love you.

Olutosin Oladosu Adebowale
Founder/Project Coordinator
Star of Hope Transformation Centre
512 Road
F Close
Festac Town


Olufunke's picture

Thank you my dear sister

man i nhumanity to man can make one ashamed of man's shamelessness, thank you for what you are doing.

aimeeknight's picture

I agree with

I agree with pays us back for all that we do. His luxury will be temporary, I pray that you will receive all you lost and more. Until that day you have your friends here to support you.

"One shoe can change a life" ~ Cinderella

Olufunke's picture


Thank you sister Aimeenknight, I am grateful for your standing by me now.

Amei's picture

You are never alone

I am sadded reading your story, I felt strong emotion washing all over me giving that internal shivers of sadness. I am so glad to see you here with a positive outlook and I wish you all the best for your future.

I am living in a far land but close enough to listen and be with you sharing my expereinces too. We are never alone, we just don’t know how to find a companian or a friend. I am your friend in this forum if you choose to be. My thoughts will be with you and my well wishes passing your path.

Yes, Worldpulse give us a place to share and smile :-) and feel good about ourselves. I believe what I give is what I get. Give a smile and I have always been rewarded with a smile.

A friend across the oceans

Olufunke's picture

Far yet close

Though far my sister, but your words bring you closer to me.
Thank you for reading my stories.

tocssfoundation's picture

I am very ashamed and

I am very ashamed and saddened by this obnoxious act of the FAKE pastor.Thank God you realized that he is fake, but our God is TRUE .He has spared your life to tell the story that will change your situation for good.He has connected you with people that feel your pulse.
Olufunke if you still believe in God and I will encourage you to do so, not in any pastor, all your material blessings that were stolen by the fake pastor shall be restored and new ones shall spring forth.Fake people are everywhere and that is why you need hope to stay alive and be strong to achieve your heart desires.You will bounce back and you will stand stronger and reap bountifully in Jesus' name.
I have been through a lot too, and this does not in any way undermind your own peculiar situation because what we go through are most times different from what others are going through and we can only feel a pain when we go through the exact ordeal. I'm able to connect with you because I have been keeping hope alive.The strength to keep hope alive is from God and I know he will supply yours, unless you want to try other spiritual systems...I strongly recommend Jeovah God.Report your adversaries to Him and watch what He will do.

Loads of love


Olufunke's picture


Yes my sister, I have accepted Christ as the only one I have now, nobody but God.
Thank you for reading and commenting.

I read your story which was full with pain and suffering of your but sadly ful with lonelyness too but jeffy warner once said "we are not put on this earth for ourselves,but are placed here for each other,if you are in right path but not in justice don't worry someone will be there for you as worldpulse you got as a result.All the best for further writing.Best regards for future life.

Olufunke's picture

TRhnk you my dear frieind

I am very happy that you read my posts. Thank you again.

Dando's picture

Its best you

have moved on. God is no respector of persons and he hears your humble cry.

What ever that man took from you, God will reward you even more than what was taken from you.

Don't lose heart because God is faithful.

we are humbled by your experiance and remember we are always here for each other.

All the best


Olufunke's picture

Thank you Dando

I am grateful for your comments, thank you.

Karen Rozier's picture

You Are Not Alone

Men and women of all ages, races, and economic status are daily swindled out of the life savings and possessions. Con men prey on the weak, the vulnerable, and the greedy.

Learn from your experience and learn to trust yourself. May God continue to watch over you, and I will say an extra prayer for you.

Olufunke's picture

Thank yo ufor your prayers

I came out wiser dear friend, though may be too late but I thank God for another opportunity.

you are great! you didnot do it along ,you did it for other women around the world, iam a liberian and our war took many women like you in that same HOUSE! thank God you are out, you have put a value and a tag on our lives, Wish is priceless. Thank, Frederica,

This my new email address
note that freddygibs is no longer my email address as it was hacked,

Olufunke's picture

Thank you so much

Thanks dear friend.

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