Changes for having a good future
To bring change in our daily life is hard so we can imagine how hard it can be to bring change in our community or in our country. As we know that noting is perfect and correct so we should always be flexible enough to bring some certain changes in ourselves or in our community. These changes should always be in a way that makes the situation of the country good and fare.
In order to make the situation of Afghan women better I want to bring two particular changes. The first thing that I want to change is family structures because I feel that women in Afghanistan are the victims of family structure which stops them from getting there rights in the society. For instance, in most families men are doing outside works, and women are just giving birth to the children and are looking after home so basically women are not aware of what is happening in the outside. So this is not justice to put all the pressure of house chores on women and that is why I want to divide their responsibilities in a way, where men and women both do the same works in a limitation. The division of the responsibilities will be like; both should take care of home and children as well as doing outside work. However, some people have the concept that in a family if both the husband and the wife work then they will not be able to give good education for their children. But I believe that it is completely wrong because I belong to a family in which both my mother and father were working outside and they gave me and my sibling good and proper education. Second, I want to change the method of education in Afghanistan because now men are the ones who are honored of being educated. In most parts of the Afghanistan boys are only allowed to go to school and get educated because their families believe that if the girls go to school then it will damage their dignity because girls are just for taking care of home. Conversely, if they have the same body shape, mind, and character, then why they should not have the same right which is getting educated. As a result, I want to raise awareness of the people and let them know that girls should become educated. Nevertheless, I believe that there will be some barriers such as people will not accept my concept or maybe their culture will not let them to accept it so I feel these are the things that stop me from bringing these changes, but if I raise the people’s awareness, then these changes can be possible so the awareness can be raised by making and organizing some workshops, making posters, or trough newspapers. Besides, the world pulse can be a good source of gathering ideas that how we can raise awareness among women, and also engage other women around with the women in Afghanistan. I want to collect some stories that can help other women to become aware of what is happening with afghan women. So after every one will read their stories they will give there suggestion and that can help me to bring a positive change in the there life.