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Dear Jimmy Briggs - I have spent several years now working with A Window between Worlds (awbw.org) and Haven House, (www.havenhousela.com) the first domestic violence shelter of it's kind, founded in the 60's here in So. Cal.

I teach creativity/writing/art to women in crisis and domestic violence survivors so I see, hear and witness the issues facing these women and their children first hand - the abuse is VERY real. Having been trained by the State of CA in domestic violence education, I know that the US and the world are just beginning to wake up to domestic violence issues - for example, many police dept's around this country still believe that the woman provoked the beating, the man is hardly at fault. Many countries believe women are nothing more than chattel - and yet, these women still keep going, a testament to

"what doesn't kill you makes you stronger."

I recently taught a class for WIndows and their Survivors Art Circle on fear - befriending it, making it useful and ultimately learning how to live with it, for it never truly goes away. Women who have left their abuser even years and years ago, still have wounds and scars that are healing ... the beautiful thing to know about these women is that their courage and determination is remarkable - to never ever "see themselves through his eyes" again is a promise they keep to themselves and their children.

I applaud your efforts and would like to introduce you to a remarkable man named Victor La Cerva MD, who is based in Santa Fe, New Mexico. In 1984, VIctor co-created the new Mexico Men's Wellness Movement and works with young men mentoring them on how to be peaceful, not violent. If you would like to connect with him, please let me know - I will be seeing Victor next week and will make the introduction.

I wish you my best - please let me know how I can be of greater service - patricia varga, A Woman with Wings

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olutosin's picture

AFRICAN MEN TOO

Thanks for teh beautiful work you are doing and what is being done tomen, I believe taht we can still salvage teh boys in Africa if you can draft a lesson plan and resource materials too, this can be inculcated into our curriculum.
It good for us all.
Thanks so much.

Olutosin Oladosu Adebowale
Founder/Project Coordinator
Star of Hope Transformation Centre
512 Road
F Close
Festac Town
Lagos-Nigeria

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A Woman with Wings's picture

HI OLUTOSIN!

Thank you for reaching out to me - I need to put you in touch with Victor as well! I will be seeing him this
Friday, I will ask for any materials and "lesson plans" he can share with you.

I am honored to know you!

Sincerely, Patricia

Patricia Varga | A Woman with Wings
P:626.403.7575 | C:626.354.5710

www.womanwwings.com

Nusrat Ara's picture

You are really doing

You are really doing wonderful work. it's true of every nation . It's the woman who is as fault or it's her who has to bear and adjust. Keep telling us more about your work.

Regards

Nusrat

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