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How a girl loves

You don't have to be a woman to understand a girl.
You don't have to make power points and statistics to understand a girl.
You don't have to create labels to understand a girl.
And you don't have to be a Nobel prize winner to understand a girl.

Because a girls loves everything that is beautiful in you, even those things that you are ashamed and you try to hide. And a girl has the guts to say "i like you" and she won't run after this. She is not affraid to show her emotions so you can enjoy them. And she does not expect you to pay forward. Because a girl, when she holds your hand, for her that moment means the world. And when she hears a word from you, that word will be tatooed on her brain. Because a girl will remember every story about your life that you told her, she will infer your whole life, she will imagine all your childhood. A girl who loves you will always cry for your pains.

A girl loves you as a whole. She even likes your feet and she knows the shape of your fingernails. She knows the thickness of your hair, she knows how many eyelashes your right eye has and how the finger prints of your left hand are united. A girl can wake up in the morning just to stay awake and watch you sleep. She even loves the little boy you were at 5, she knows your faces and she understands all your gestures. Even that one that you make by turning your back at her.

With a girl, you have to be sensitive. And to be true to her. Because she won't need a thing more. With a girl you have to be sometimes a gentleman and from time to time to tell her "you look pretty today" even if she looks like a mess. And in that moment she will give up with no regrets at poems and love songs and air. When you are with a girl, you have to respect her private space and to tell her exactly what you think. You have to be nice with her mom and talk bussiness with her dad. And she will follow you even in North Coreea.

Because a girl who is inlove with you won't need much more from you. But she will always need something: you. And if you are no ready to give yourself to her, don't take nothing from what she gives. And don't look at her with that look. And don't smile to her like you're dropping rose petals in front of her. And don't kiss her slowly and don't play with her hands on a sunset. Don't touch her at all if you are not ready to let your heart be touched.

Because, to a girl that is inlove, you better shake her dreams at the beggining than destry the story she thinks she's living ...

Comments

Kakim's picture

You are right!

Dear Anaisjane
I am thankful for every bit of information.You are on the right way.
I am glad you were there for her and can offer your friendship and support.
Best Wishes
Kakim

anaisjane's picture

Thank you

This is a poetic story. In time, that girl inlove, was me, were my friends or my collegues. We all were inlove and we all had dreams and an entire love story in our heads when we met a boy.

Have a pretty day!

andreea m.

"Call me crazy, couse I am. And this crazy helps me see this as funny, makes me feel rich without money, helps me see death as funny, makes me feel brave without money...Call me crazy, couse I am, thank God I'm alive..." Storm Large

pooza11's picture

exactly, A girl regardless of

exactly,
A girl regardless of anything will show her reveal her emotions without any fear. She will not feel shame to tell anyone that she likes him or any one.
Its a joy reading your journal. It is so beautiful and holds genuine facts. keep writing.
Love and peace
Pooza

anaisjane's picture

Thank you so much

I am glad you liked my journal. I am just inlove with girlish feelings and I really believe that being a girl is a powerful thing. I do believe that being a girl is an important part of a woman's life and that we do not need to forget all our foolish feelings, all those emotions that kept us awake in the middle of the night.

Love and harmony,

andreea m.

"Call me crazy, couse I am. And this crazy helps me see this as funny, makes me feel rich without money, helps me see death as funny, makes me feel brave without money...Call me crazy, couse I am, thank God I'm alive..." Storm Large

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