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This is the story once told over the bottle of cognac. At those moments of life when woe fills the consciousness and one wants to pour out one's troubles. My friend, a young lady 20 years old, fell in love with bad guy and became pregnant with his baby malapropos. It was coming to the wedding, but there was no happiness for her. Left for herself, lonely, needed for nobody, waiting days and nights for care hopelessly, only the child under her heart was warming her thoughts. When she was only a month pregnant her would-be husband cheated on her and left her with all troubles alone.

When her parents got to know, hand in hand, they took her, in tears and drained of all strength, to the doctor and forced to have an abortion. Weather she understood what she did – no. Weather she loved the incipient life inside her – yes. During the next year she was living with the memories of the unborn child, going through constant nervous prostrations, visiting psychologists and swallowing every day sedatives.

The parents didn’t want to spoil the reputation of their daughter, who could give birth to the baby without being married, and for this killed the embryo inside her. Alongside unconsciously they killed life in her eyes.
The typical story one may say, but one should remember that the bottle of cognac can be easily drained, while one can hardly drain all tears and treat the soul and heart of a women, who has not given birth to her already so beloved child.


pooza11's picture

I too had a friend who went

I too had a friend who went through the same phase. she was forced to abort her child and now she is regretting sad to hear such stories but good that you raised such issues.

keep writing

Olga Lukshyna's picture

Thank you

Thank you dear Pooza. This is my first article and that is why it is important for me to know that I am on the right way.
It is really sad to get to know about such stories but people should understand that every choice in their lives should be maid by themselves and no one have right for intrusion in other peoples`s lives.

I am thankful for every bit of information. I know the struggle because I had my beautiful son knowing I would be a single mother and was faced with allowing myself to miscarry or taking herbs, that were extremely effective. It was one of the best decisions I ever made, but it was challenging, so my heart goes out to her.

Olga Lukshyna's picture

Thank you for nice words :)

I am really thankfull for your time spent on reading and very appreciated for sharing your own experience with me. Hope to write something even better to touch your heart again.

Greta's picture

Hello Olga

Your story was very powerful and my heart goes out to your friend and the many women who face this circumstance. I am glad you were there for her and can offer your friendship and support. I send support and wishes for some healing from afar,

In Kindness,

Olga Lukshyna's picture

Dear Gretchen

Thank you for your kindness and understanding. I think that if all people will not stand apart from each other, the world will be better and it`s heart will be beating stronger.

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