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Burning Their Daughters Out Of Love

Today I watched a shocking and painful documentary about breast ironing in Cameroon. I watched with disgust as mothers pounded and massaged the developing breasts of unwilling young girls with hot objects to try to make them disappear.

I was surprised to learn that this practice is more widespread than I previously thought. It affects as many as one in four girls, according to local health activists, as many mothers believe it protects their daughters from the sexual advances of boys and men who think children are ripe for sex once their breasts begin to grow.

The most widely used instrument to flatten the breasts is a wooden pestle, used for pounding tubers in the kitchen. Heated bananas and coconut shells are also used. Some mothers massage hot grinding-stones into their daughters' chests, while others pound the tissue with heated plantain peels. Sometimes, women rub kerosene or medicinal herbs on adolescent breasts.

What on earth would drive a mother to press a hot stone into her daughter's chest? Despite the pain and fear, many of the women and girls in the documentary considered it a normal treatment for early breast development. Mothers believe they forcibly try to eliminate signs of puberty to protect their preteen girls from HIV and pregnancy. One mother explained that she did it out of love.

Breast ironing is not an effective method of preventing early sex and pregnancies because many of the girls still become pregnant. I consider this practice blatant violation of human rights of these young girls. It could even hurt a girl’s self-esteem later in life. These mothers need to be educated and taught the skills to openly discuss sex issues with their daughters at home. Schools also need to include sex education in their curriculum. These measures I believe will help relieve these poor girls from unnecessary pain and anguish.

Comments

JaniceW's picture

Horrifying

Education certainly is key. It never ceases to amaze me what lengths women go to or are subjected to, to either attract or curtail the attraction of men. When I first read about the bound feet of Chinese women, I was horrified yet practices just as brutal continue today. As women, we owe it to our sisters around the world and to the young girls of the next generation to stop these acts and educate them through learning, not abuse. Thank you for sharing this with us and I look forward to reading more from you. Best wishes,
Janice

vtantoh's picture

Thanks Janice

Education is certainly the key. I hope the next generation will take up the challenge to help educate their little ones about sex education at home and in school. I am not really familiar about the bound feet of chinese women.Will do some research on that.
Thanks

jadefrank's picture

traditions to be broken

Dear Vivian,

It is heartbreaking to think that women could do this to their daughters. But as you mention, a lack of education and deep root in tradition allows this practice to go on. Hopefully not for much longer.

PulseWire member Enie Ndoh of Cameroon wrote about this topic a while back, which is where I first heard of the practice. She may be able to provide you with some more information.
http://www.worldpulse.com/node/7587
http://www.worldpulse.com/node/7494

Warm regards,
Jade

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