Change your life, start dreaming right
It is easy for all of us to victimize ourselves and say we are, for instance, unhappy because somebody has done something bad to us, or battered because our husbands are bad, or poor because the world has made us poor. Needless to say, this is the easy way to deal with our conflicts. I don't need to remind anyone that being the victim is not the right move as it doesn't pay off at the end. But I will say, instead, that it is many times hard to see ourselves as responsible for what happens to us.
I read a line in someone's facebook that made my conscience rewind: YOU SHOULD NOT LIVE WITH REGRET, AS WHAT YOU DID BEFORE, WAS DONE BECAUSE YOU WANTED TO DO IT. IT WAS YOUR WILL. How true! We have done whatever we wanted, and got the results we got, good or bad, ON OUR OWN.
Now, being responsible for your actions, your thoughts, your results does feel like a burden sometimes, but when you think about it, facing the truth that you did exactly what you wanted will make you more aware that you need to want the RIGHT stuff for yourself. Again, what is the right stuff? It is whatever your heart wants and needs, it is about your dreams of being the best you can be and of course, it has to do with accepting that you actually HAVE a dream that you want to fulfill.
Once, a long time ago, my husband used to treat me really bad and I used to suffer from his bad mood. I even cried and felt miserable. Until I told him that he was being rude and mean to me and he answered: A MAN, only does to you what YOU LET HIM. From there on, I never again allowed him to treat me badly, and the result has been great. He is very loving and treats me right all the time.
What if he had not answered that way? This is the truth: something else would have happened to make me realize how not to let him treat me badly, because I always dreamed of myself being lovingly treated by my husband and my family. I am telling you I had the RIIGHT dream.
Dream beyond all your limits. Dream that you will be a queen, and it will be ok if you become a princess. Dream that you will have one million dollars, and it will be ok if you make half a million. Dream that you will be extremely loved and respected, and it will be ok if you are just loved and respected.
You see what I mean? Dream beyond all that is known to you right now. Always go further away in your dreaming. It costs you nothing but the desire, and the desire becomes energy, and the energy becomes reality. The Universe will provide all you need for your dreams to become true, and you will be producing the energy the Universe needs to keep providing what is necessary for you.
I read that physicists call "The Butterfly Effect" to the fact that the flap of a butterfly's wings in Brazil can set off a storm in Texas. This theory explains how the breeze produced by a butterfly's wings could set off a series of reverberations that over time have a tremendous affect on weather patterns thousands of miles away. Now imagine the impact of millions of butterflies... Isn't that an amazing statement? Physicists know about the theory of "The Butterfly Effect", and now you also have that information. What will you do with it? Will you start once and for all dreaming for what is right for you?
What will you do ta take advantage of The Butterfly Effect in your life? Shake your inner self, take any trash out of your mind, dream wisely... and tell me about it, please.