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KENYA: A Cruel Cut in the Name of Tradition

Like many young girls in Africa, Gladys Kiranto was circumcised as a child. Today, she leads an organization that is fighting against the practice.

"I was lucky enough to survive. Many girls bleed to death after being cut."

The terror of what was to come overwhelmed me. I could run no more and knew that for my mother to be spared from being beaten and from possible death, I had to submit to my father’s will. I was to be circumcised, and I could do nothing to stop it.

Back then I knew nothing about the risk of bleeding to death, the transmission of infectious diseases, the permanent damage done to a girl’s life—all the things that can occur with Female Genital Mutilation (FGM).

I was only 12 when my father took me from school and told me it was time for me to be circumcised. I asked my mother for help. She said that as a woman she could not resist my father’s will.

“All you can do is to run away,” she said.

I asked my sister Esther.

“Mother is right,” she answered, “they will force you.”

Esther helped by giving me some money, and one morning I caught the bus to an older sister who lived in Nairobi. I thought I had escaped the practice.

But my father began asking questions. “Where is Naingol’ai?” (My Maasai name.) My mother denied she knew where I was, and my father threatened and beat her.

“If Naingol’ai does not return within a week, I will beat you to death!” he said.

My mother was very scared and wrote me a letter, pleading with me to come back. I was anxious about losing her, so I returned home. I found her lying in a dark corner of the hut, stone-still. I thought she was dead and that I had come too late. My father had beaten her so badly with his traditional Maasai stick—her head, her legs, her hands…she was injured everywhere. Her eyes were so swollen that she could not see. I was in such a state of anguish. “Thank you for coming back,” my mother whispered, exhausted and in pain.

Three days later, the circumcision ceremonies began.

I come from a very large Maasai family, my father having six wives and I being one his 50 children. There were 30 girls to be circumcised. Six of these were my sisters; the others came from the neighborhood. We received a new dress and most of the girls were excited, completely ignorant of what was going to happen. Some of the older women were making jokes, saying that if they were young again they would run away. No one said why.

Although FGM was illegal in Kenya even in the 1990’s, the police did not prosecute the practice. Teachers did not mention FGM and why it was prohibited. It was an expected course that this would happen to all girls in our community. According to the traditional beliefs, circumcision turns a girl into a woman who is fit for marriage. The practice is said to “clean” the girl and to guarantee that she will be a faithful wife.

The circumcision ceremony started with two days of dancing and singing. Then, on the third day at 6 a.m. we were taken outside. All our family and neighbors attended; small children were bouncing around, playing and laughing. The girls who were going to be circumcised laid down on cow skins, two to three girls to each one. Then a woman came along with a knife, and she cut us. The procedure took a minute for each girl. This was performed without anesthetic, and the knife was not cleaned or disinfected. To cry out during this ceremony would have been seen as shameful; no one screamed. Initially, the pain was short lived, but the pain that came later was terrible.

We were moved into a big house and had someone care for us, usually an older sister. We were too weak to get up alone or to go to the toilet without help. For a whole week, there was nothing but tears and pain. Nothing made the pain go away. The girls cried all day and night, unable to eat or sleep. I lost a lot of blood. It was a relief when at last I lost consciousness.

I was lucky enough to survive. Many girls bleed to death after being cut. Other girls die later due to infections that are caused by the procedure. HIV/AIDS is often spread by the cuttings. Moreover, FGM causes an increased risk of childbirth complications and newborn deaths, as the scar tissue can delay the childbirth process. According to the World Health Organization, about 92 million African girls age 10 years and above have suffered FGM. . . .

Comments

consolata's picture

Congrats Gladys

I read this with a-lot of heart ache. This is sad but thank that all is well with you since you faced everything positively. I have shared your story on face book for people to read and share. Hope it will help girls out there who are suffering like you did.
Keep up the good work.
Can also see what we are doing in our small ways to end gender Violence
www.womanshope.org

TaretoMaa's picture

Thank you so much for sharing

Thank you so much for sharing this story on Facebook. It means a great deal. Thanks also for your website. Do you have a twitter account so we could follow you there? Will definetely be looking at what you do. Many thanks again.

louiseqin's picture

Inspiring story

Thank you for sharing your story. It's very empowering, and encourage to know that you're giving those girls who are facing the same situation as you did the help you had not been given. You're a brave woman with a big heart!

TaretoMaa's picture

Thank you so much for your

Thank you so much for your kind words of encouragement and support. It means a great deal.

Monica McLeod's picture

FGM: One Voice = Change!

Dear Gladys,
You are an inspiration to women every where! How brave and determined you are. Your actions have begun a ripple of change. Saving even one other girl from the horror of FGM is a tremendous accomplishment and you have already saved many. You are a hero!

TaretoMaa's picture

I don't know what to say in

I don't know what to say in answer to your great praise; simply to say I am humbled and honoured to serve, to help and to give of my strength through what has happened to me. Thank you so much for your kind comments.

Abisinuola's picture

You are so brave,thanks for

You are so brave,thanks for taking a stand.not just for yourself,but also for countless others that you are getting to help today!

Abisinuola

euricisay's picture

Thank You for Inspiring me...

Hello Sister,

Thank you very much for inspiring through your life story. You are so brave and really an empowered woman. We may not share the same story but the context is all about woman struggle and empowerment. I would gladly share this to my friends.

All the best,
Sarrah

Noreen D.'s picture

FGM

Thank you for sharing you personal and painful experience of female cutting It's hard to believe that in this day and age, this barbaric and patricidal mutilation is still going on. By your bringing y our story to the light and letting the world know of its continuance, you are helping to end it.

Noreen

Noreen Donohue

Y's picture

I am so sorry this cruel

I am so sorry this cruel thing happened to you. I celebrate your courage in using your pain to fuel a passion to change things for others.

My mother, too, put her children in harm's way to protect herself. Women must stop shielding themselves with the bodies of their children.

Yvette

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