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• Read World Pulse founder Jensine Larsen's thoughts on Fatima's story.

• Learn more about the complicated history of India and Pakistan's war over Kashmir, and the effects on her people, in this photo-rich presentation.

• Watch clips from Women Between the Frontlines, a documentary detailing the many women fighting for peace in Kashmir.

• Find out how women in the conflict zone engage in politics in IMOW's "A Collage of Her Severally Inspected Parts."

• Listen to Arundhati Roy's recent call to action.

• Read more voices from the conflict at Kashmir Lit.

World Pulse recommends The Tiger Ladies: A Memoir of Kashmir, the first-ever memoir written by a Kashmiri woman.

PulseWire Show Your Support: Join the PulseWire group, Hope in Kashmir: Sharing Our Stories, to learn from Kashmiri, Pakistani, and Indian women and men as they dialogue for peace.

My Life, My Kashmir

"We look forward to when Kashmiri life amounts to more than a statistic on the late night news; when there is freedom and dignity, and the fear of harassment, frisking, or death does not loom at every corner."

Rural women rally for peaceful elections (Yawar Nazir, IMOW)

"Women were a huge part of this movement. Ordinary housewives, mothers of the missing, and even schoolgirls took part in non-violent protests that stretched over many months."

the Kashmiri people speak of it as a move towards peaceful means of resistance, a philosophy to which an entire generation of young Kashmiris who grew up during the tumultuous years subscribe. They are not disenchanted with the struggle for Independence, but are markedly distanced from the violent means of achieving it.

Kashmiris believe in peace. The flare of a Kashmiri indigenous armed movement is often portrayed in the media as alive and active. In truth, this armed movement lasted just long enough to draw world attention. The Jammu Kashmir Liberation Front, one of the oldest and widest separatist networks, laid down arms in 1994, technically fighting an armed battle for less than six years. Since then they have been waging an above-ground political battle. Kashmiris see the futility of a protracted low-intensity war, which India’s leaders keenly want to tie with global terrorism in the eyes of the international community.

The conflict in our region is not in the same category as the mayhem in Afghanistan or the disturbances in Pakistan. Ours is not a religious issue or an issue of terrorism, although religious extremists have tried to take ownership of our struggle to advance their own agendas. While there has been tension between Hindu and Muslim communities in recent history, the global media largely inflates the realities of these issues. Ours is a struggle for Independence, not a struggle over warring beliefs.

Just six months ago millions of Kashmiris flooded the streets in peaceful protests against an Indian-backed land-leasing order which violated the special status of Kashmir and created fear of demographic domination from the Indian population. These protests morphed into calls for self-determination and implementation of the promised UN resolution. Women were a huge part of this movement. Ordinary housewives, mothers of the missing, and even schoolgirls took part in non-violent protests that stretched over many months. Even after India revoked its controversial land order, the protests for Independence continued before fading away as the harsh Himalayan winter set in.

Today, the solution for Kashmir’s conflict lies in addressing the long-term implications of conflict. While it is important to address the immediate needs of those who have been maimed, raped, molested, and psychologically impaired, it is equally important to address the political imbroglio that bred this large-scale human rights crisis in the first place. We must go to the heart of the issue and address Kashmir not as the "problem of India and Pakistan," but "Pakistan and India" as the problem of Kashmir.

With Barack Obama elected president of the US, it seems Kashmir’s political upheaval might just come off the backburner. Both Obama himself and Susan Rice, US Ambassador to the UN, have listed Kashmir amongst a list of other regions of conflict—a big departure from the silence surrounding my homeland’s struggles during Bush’s tenure. And Britain's Foreign Secretary David Miliband recently wrote in the Guardian that “resolution of the dispute over Kashmir would help deny extremists in the region one of their main calls to arms and allow Pakistani authorities to focus more effectively on tackling the threat on their western borders." Following the changing stance of the US, Miliband’s remarks indicate a long-delayed thaw in the West’s icy negation of the issue.

As the chilly evenings of winter become colder and longer due to frequent power outages in the valley, families sit together clinging to their hot coal braziers. Amidst the political debate that has dominated these Kashmiri living rooms for decades, there is one mind when it comes to thinking of a new future. We look forward to when Kashmiri life amounts to more than a statistic on the late night news; when there is freedom and dignity, and the fear of harassment, frisking, or death does not loom at every corner; when kids can actually read Kashmir history at school and not just the history of neighboring India; when a young boy can follow his friends spontaneously and not have to worry about a forgotten identity card. We all hope for a future when Kashmiris will be free as every people deserves to be, as India and Pakistan deserved to be from British colonial rule.

Editor's Note

Fatima Sultan Syed is a journalist, an activist, and a mother. She is just one of the many women from this region vying to tell her story, eager to inform the world of her daily life, and ready for cross-border dialogue to incite solutions.

In a conflict with multiple realities and multiple histories, hers is not the only truth. After you've read Fatima’s words, log on to PulseWire to join Hope in Kashmir: Sharing Our Stories, a discussion among Kashmiri, Indian, and Pakistani women with a vision for a peaceful Kashmir. —Eds.


efe's picture

the fight for independence

While reading Fatima's account, in My Life, MY Kashmir, it made me realize how people can take what they have for granted or even abuse it. Fatima and other people of that region are experiencing psychological and physical turmoil for wanting to be independent. Nigeria has been an independent territory since 1960. but the majority of people have chosen to ignore the ideals of people who fought for our independence at a less cost than Kasmir, i might add. Fatima, i admire you for your inner strength after all you have gone through. May you continue to be strengthened and may you continue to tell your story.

Tatiana de Araujo Barbosa's picture

Dear Fatima, my name is

Dear Fatima,

my name is Tatiana, I'm from Brazil and work as a television journalist - independent productions.
In 2006, I had the opportunity to spend 20 days in Kashmir. When I read your article, I could remember again the smell of lotus flowers in the lakes, I could feel the sensation of be walking through the markets and the old center...and to get deeply emotional with the beauty of women in their colorful scarfs, and veils. I will never forget your country and the special and important experience it was for me, a latin woman, to observe particular angles of Srinagar and to talk to people trying to capture a little about their spirits. Something that will remain in my soul forever! Thanks for your words, and for helping me to remember.
Best Regards

Victoria Vorosciuc's picture

May our good wishes

reach the beings that live there and MAY PEACE COME BACK TO THIS part of the world!

Victoria Vorosciuc
Project Coordinator
"Empowering women to participate
in community life"
WorldPulse Media Corresspondent

Fatima Sultan Syed's picture


Thanks so much for your concern and kind wishes. I hope peace returns with due reverence to the ones whose lives have been lost so far and those who continue to get mauled every day.

jasir's picture


All we Kashmiris have is memory, even after so many years of conflict . World needs to know the stories of torture and sorrow that kashmiris have faced with resilience...

Cathy-Sue's picture

Kashmir Unveiled

Dear Fatima,
After reading your article I realized how little I actually knew about the Kashmiri struggle other than what the world media has seen fit to serve me. For one I was completely unaware of the high rates of sexual violence towards women. I will be bringing some attention onto Kashmir in our small local charity to see how we can get involved.

Cathy Sue, Chief Editor @
Single Parent Center

sahar's picture

Dear Fatima Independence can

Dear Fatima

Independence can not be gained unless long struggle takes place , as the old saying " no pain , no gain." However , I am impressed with the the determination of Kashmiri people and your lay out of your struggle.

I wish you all the best sister !


Sahar Nuraddin

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Maura Conlon's picture

Thank you for this moving

Thank you for this moving account of your country -- the shift in mood, from that peace you remember as a child to the uprising conflict -- is so palpable. I hope that seeds of hope are planted in the new generation and that the older generations can hold onto their memories of peace and tell their stories to keep the beacon bright. I hope you will keep us updated on new developments.
Warm best,

Maura Conlon-McIvor, Ph.D
author, founder and social change psychologist
celebrate life/tell your story/live your heart's legacy

Dear Fatima

Ur words touched me deeply and i could relate with everything mentioned as the situation is the same for the Nagas in India, who fell into the colonial hands of British, and left without solutions between India and Burma.

Thank you for sharing this note!!


piu2011's picture


If feel this then do not use rights given for Indian citizens.

they really need to think about the other people

piu2011's picture

Thats a double standard post

I can say only one thing if Kashmiris want separation from India then should not use Indian passport if they feel that Indians peruse military rule in Kashmir.They should stop asking for reservations in government jobs and institutions. Thirdly they should confine themselves to Kashmir.

Well the true story is that the kashmiris want only orthodox Islamic rule. They have already kicked out the Kashmiri pundits and Sikhs out of the state due to terror attacks against them. This lady should explain this in next post. Large number of men from armed forces have been killed due to Kashmir. What about them.

If you feel that Indian government is doing dictatorship in Kashmir. Please go and live in any Islamic country where women cannot go out without wearing a veil and a male escort.

Dear Hindu Nationalist

You don't need to send me message on the inbox, we can discuss it publicly and you knew that you are not confident of what you write, is that the reason, why you don't show your identity? Come out like me or Fatima and we can discuss issues in a better way. Actually, it's not even worth commenting on your post, but i decided to do so.. If you come publicly, we can discuss in more humane way.

First of all, i feel so sorry to know that you are just attacking people without actually understanding anything what's going on. We don't deny the fact that Hindu Pandits or Sikhs have been affected too in J & K. You can write about their problems too in more humane way, but not, attacking others like Hindutva or Hindu fundamentalist. You need to respect voice of dissent and digest issues and problems that confronts the country today. We don't need to fight or target each other all the more. We need steps to address those issues and start finding ways on how to make things work. If India holds view like you do, then everybody except Hindu will be able to survive and live. But, I am glad they are good enough to understand and accept the failures too and making amends. That's the reason, they give passport to all citizens of India, not only Hindus or Sikhs. TC

I want to say one thing that most of the Indians outside Kashmir want to know that you do not want people from other region to live and own property in Kashmir. Why so?

You feel we will snatch everything from you. A normal Kashmiri does wants people as tourist but not as residents why?

If I speak the truth then it hurts right. Can you explain me why you people want special status that residents of other do not like? If you feel that Indian government does injustice to your people then answer me how many wars have taken place due to Kashmir and how many soldeirs have died to protect the state.

If all normal kashmiris feel what you think the best solution would be to withdraw all protection, security and special status given to Kashmir and leave the state in mercy of fundamentalist like Gilani. This will save the manpower of the armed forces as well as money of Indian government.

Kashmir has been always been trouble for most of the Indians but still we take of it. Kashmir and its people are the integral part of India and will always remain so inspite of whatever people like you think. India's financial power has more say in international arena than the separatist.

As far of being Hindu is concerned I am an human first, then an Indian and finally an Hindu for which I am quite proud of . Anyway who are forgetting that majority of people in India are Hindus are equally fed up of terror attacks and saddened by the death of army personnel and common man. We do worry how the heaven on earth has became the hell for people of India.

Please try to think what other citizens perceive about Kashmir and please come out of the mentality that Kashmiris are only sufferers. Please wake up and remember the truth about a situation changes according to perception.

piu2011's picture

Open up your eyes

I don't have confidence then I would not be writing here. And please take your head out of Kashmir . India has 27 other states and 7 union territories where other people live and can speak against your opinion.

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